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    I don't how to do this

    So, an interesting development. Paul went home this past weekend, to 1. Visit with his mom, because his grandfather (her dad) passed away, and we weren't able to to afford to fly to St. Vincent to be at the funeral, and to 2. Work on music with Thecla. Apparently, while on the road, his...
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    I don't how to do this

    They just released an EP. It's electronica music, mostly computerized synths, less real instruments. They are actually making music, but they also chat a lot.
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    I don't how to do this

    @Magdlyn @nycindie 1. Thecla lives in our home city, but she's not from there. We live five hours away. (Yay for moving for jobs.) 2. Paul and Thecla are the only band members. He's been a solo musician since he was a young teen. 3. Because of where we live, they do all their band stuff via...
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    I don't how to do this

    Is there a way we can make this work? I'm mono and I know it. I want both of us to be happy. I'm not ready to just walk away from this relationship. It's not just about him and me. Our families are close. They have all bonded. We've become one big family. I'm really afraid what other family...
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    I don't how to do this

    I'd just to thank everyone for being so nice. I feel that I should clear a few things up, as when I wrote my original post I was very emotional and may have left dome important deets out. The good news is, we are communicating about the situation. I've made my feelings known, and told Paul I...
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    I don't how to do this

    Hi, I've come here seeking help and advice. I'm a 23 yr old woman. I've been in a mono relationship with my fiance, Paul, for four years. Four months ago we met a young woman, Thecla, while traveling to a concert. She was looking for a ride. We all hit it off. I thought she'd be a great friend...
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