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I have to say, I'm really pleased with all the responses I've seen here. I'm grateful for all the input. It's really helping me Sort things out in my head. Sparklepop hit it right not the head. I just want to be respected by my wife's "others". I want them to acknowledge that I am there...

He had seen me in the bar where my wife met him. But we were never introduced.

No. I didn't completely veto it. I saw no reason to veto it. And in trying to see things from his perspective, I can understand why he was nervous about meeting him. I'm a big person both physically and I've been told my "presence", for lack of a better term, can be quite big as well. In short...

I actually agree with this. I don't think I was entirely right. However, I did say she has been on multiple dates with guys that I didn't know before and it didn't freak me out like this. And those dates were with guys unfamiliar with poly. I'm really unhappy with the way I handled the...

I realize getting pissy wasn't the best reaction. I was having trouble articulating myself in a way she could understand, most likely because the situation just bothered me. And she was upset with me. I can't blame her. The thing is, she's been on multiple dates with guys before without me...

So, a little background. My wife and I have been in a poly relationship for about 3 years at this point. We both ended up with a second significant other once we opened the relationship and made a lot of the beginners poly mistakes, with both of our relationships with our secondaries ending...

My name is Brian. I've frequented these boards in the past 8 months in order to help myself get a better grip on what poly is and what it means to me. I've learned a lot and appreciate everyone who has helped me (even if they don't realize it). Anyway short intro. I am married man in a poly...