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Well he is out, at least for now. Told him I still wanted to date but not live together but who knows if that will work out.

I think things are going better. All I can hope is that the months of a mess I have already been threw have not ruined things so much that getting things back together will get me over it.

I have set a date for myself where I will set a date or him, if that makes sense. If within the next week I do not see improvement in his looking for work then I am going to give him a date that if he cannot contribute he needs to move out.

I am definably not taking the idea of this breakup lightly but with my biggest problem right now being I feel like he is treating my like his mother I am not sure me writing up a list of chores is the best idea for me.

Thank you for your honest opinions of the situation. He does occasionally help around the house, but not nearly to the extent someone in his situation should be. Our place looks like a train wreak lol, yes I know I should do something about it myself but I think I just let it get this way...

I was in this place for a while. I had no idea what to do. I wanted a relationship, but didn't want to impose on my partner's more important relationships. Two years later, we are both kicking ourselves we were not more open about how we felt about each other. I am not saying jump in and say...

I am completely in love with my primary partner but just under a year ago we moved in together and since then he has been treating me like his mother. Everything 'real world' thing in the relationship is my responsibility. I don't want to end things but I am worried that the stress of holding...

Sorry I never got back to thanking you all for your advice. I understand no birth control method is 100% but that is a risk I have already considered and feel confident in my birth control method. I still have not had the conversation, I am so nervous about it. Today he went out on a date...

Nothing really graphic but when it comes down to it this question is about sex. I have been seeing my primary boyfriend, who I live with, for about a year and I have been seeing my other partner for over a year now. In our relationship as a general rule I can do what I like but I need to use...

That link was really helpful, thanks!

After some stumbles along the way I am really starting to get a hang on how poly works for me and what makes me and my partners happy. However I have had something new come up and I just don't know how to handle it. A couple as approached me with interest in starting a casual relationship...

I always do worry to much of what other people think of me, I know I need to let it go a bit. If they found out at work I would probably lose my job but I work two towns over so it isn't really a huge likelihood of running into someone from work.

Tried to fit my question in the title box but I don't think it made a lot of sense. This question mostly applies to people who are not fully out as poly, I am out among some friends, not others, and no family. I was wondering if there places you frequent, like restaurants, that at one your a...