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Yeeeeeeeeees. I will forever roll my eyes at everyone who has ever asked me if I'm sure because I haven't had much sexual or romantic experience with women. :rolleyes: But frankly I feel how I feel. The End. Same here. I've tried to intellectualize my attraction before and have come to the...

To give you some perspective W2BE: When I met my S/O he had ended his relationship with his ex a month before and though they were still sharing an apartment, he no longer slept in the bedroom with her. He also had financial difficulties being able to afford moving out on his own. Lemme just...

Love! Will relay to my girl-friend who sees red over stuff like this. :D

I do it too, but waaaaaaay more discreetly than he does, lmao. It doesn't bother me for him to look at other women when we're out; he usually invites me to look for myself if he finds any of them attractive. That might be a part of why it doesn't bother me. I already know where his focus is...

Hi Mono! :) *waves* Smiling about all the fun LB is having in my hometown. I miss it so. I'm happy y'all are connecting on your own, separate experiences and all that. When everyone gets back together I'm sure the stories will be endless.

Sounds like fun!! I imagine he'll be enjoying himself, there's lots to do in TO. And no, that feeling never goes away, rofl. I've sent my wee one with family a few times and every single time the house gets quiet and I have to try to find other things to do.

I would love to hear his response to this kind of question, LOL.

I just wanted to say Panda, you show incredible self-awareness and inner strength and sometimes we don't get a lot of that on this forum, so this kind of awesome to read. I don't really have any advice besides whatever has been said already, and you've come to some conclusions and hard limits...

First issue here. y'all didn't address the lack of intimacy between you before deciding to bring someone else into the mix. That really should be a priority. Another person is not the cure. Yeah, things are never different after a month. Drama junkies that promise to change for you...

Actually no, I don't think anyone here finds you an idiot. It might seem like the less background information the better but I can tell you that's often not the case when you make a thread. But now that you've laid the other issues out I feel like it's imperative she goes back to therapy. I...

ROFL This post is so much win.

Wishing all of you the best as y'all work through this together. What a difference time to cool down and subsequent thought and revelation makes. Good for you Red, for taking advantage of your support system as things progress.

I... am at a loss for words. LMAO

YES YES YES I've learned this the hard way on more than one occasion and after feeling of being drained and hung out to dry... no more. I have to deal with my own shit. So does everybody else. I can only do so much, I'm only one person, and I refuse to feel bad about it. Good on you.

You haven't read any of the responses but you're in here posting titangraphs expecting the rest of us to take a look. ROFL

I second Cindie's sentiments. It just sounds like he's pretty much gonna do what he wants, and you're expected to come around to the notion as quickly as possible without consideration from him about your feelings. See how this is problematic for you as a person and also as the other party in...

I wouldn't say red, more like yellow, but not a dealbreaker depending on management and severity. I haven't had much experience dating people with mental illness but I do have, and have had, people in my life affected so I can't say never.

Spot on. Nothing else to add. :)

My SO and I are common-law but far as I'm concerned that's as close to legal marriage as you can get so I'll answer lol. I see this as a possible issue in the future, as does my SO. But I trust that he will try his best to support a gf through those struggles, because we've (mostly me LOL) come...

I would too. In fact, I've had a similar situation come before, and realized that is a hard limit for me. I empathize with you Cleo. Keep examining, keep doing the inner work, and figure out your limits.