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Haha, I love this word! :) Thanks for sharing! I went through a similar moral struggle, although my partner had a girlfriend he was hiding me from & not married with kids... Although I loved him very much, felt like it was more his problem than mine and didn't want to let go, I was sick of...

After a year... The worst part is walking away. But once you do, you will have so much more respect for yourself and feel more confident in what you believe is right for you. His manipulative talk sounds incredibly familiar. I know it's confusing and hurtful, but you have to see through it...

Difficult truth It sucks but it's true. I think our relationship was more important to me than it was to him, which was hurtful but I think it just happens and it isn't anyone's fault...

Thank you! Thank you!! I will definitely have more to say tomorrow after my first poly event tonight! <3 xoxo

In Transition Welcome!! I'm actually still in transition! I think it's a long process because you have to deal with so many preconceptions and re-organize your brain a little bit... You will find a variety of experiences on here and since I'm not in a marriage this might not be familiar to...

Thank you Cat I hope you all know that you really do make a difference in a person's life... :) because you really are helping me to understand myself and work through this... This really struck a cord with me::eek: I need to work on this. :o I need to be better at making mySELF happy. I...

Maybe SHE is the poly one I just haven't seen that much discussion about your wife's sexual wants and needs... :o I know she hasn't been able to "gratify" you in the same way and she seems to feel guilty about that and thinks this might be good for you... But if she is so persistent...

Thank you!! You definitely seem like you have been in a similar situation... thank you for replying to my thread! These were my favorite things that you said: My guy is not married though... to me it seems like there should be some significance. Difference between dating "single &...

Other helpful areas of the site You can ask questions in New to Polyamory: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=4 Look for events in Meetings & Events: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=7 Or start your own blog in Lifestories & Blogs...

Try something new? I'm not that experienced either but... I think as long as you are honest with your partners about who you are, it will help manage any unrealistic expectations of you. Prevent disappointment, fights, etc.

Lost a friend? Sooo I realized I never wrapped up this thread... :( I brought up the subject while helping him fold his laundry. Explaining how I don't want to do anything that would hurt anybody. The arguments I faced and was pretty much unprepared for... "Why can't you let me worry about...

Curious I'm wondering how this turned out. I hope all went well! :)

Oops here's the link http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=7 :D

Poly events? Maybe there are poly events in your area? Check out the "Meetings and Events" section of the board... :)

More about me? Umm I kind of realized that I didn't say very much about myself... How new am I... let's just say I'm still riding the high I felt when I first discovered :eek: that polyamory communities exist!! I'm not the only one!? Woohoo! I can "conversationally" speak French, Spanish...

No worries! I'm sure the event will be a great way to get started!

Sounds great! I checked out your thread, so excited to attend! I'm planning to go on the 14th... thanks so much!! :D

Donde?? Thanks for the reply and welcome! Are the groups online somewhere? :confused: or on this forum? Still learning to navigate the Poly-world :o

Hey everyone! I'm a 25 year old bi-sexual woman, settling into a polyamorous lifestyle... unfortunately I haven't found too many people who are open to both loving more than one person AND being honest about it... with ALL people involved... so if you have any recommendations for ways to meet...

amen! :)