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  1. openbj

    This is so weird but also exciting lol

    Well, the girl J has been seeing moves off for college on Thursday. I have to admit, I won't be sad about it. With it being based off of lies, I'm ready for it to be over. Then, we move to NM sometime over the next 2 weeks. I can't wait for J to find a girl that he can really build a...
  2. openbj

    Poly and I want a divorce but he does not...

    I don't know that selling the bike is a good idea NY. He sounds really unstable and I would be concerned about his reaction. He may not be violent towards her so far, but you sell a man's motorcycle and he's bound to lose control. Now is the time to play it smart, not add fuel to the fire...
  3. openbj

    Mutually beneficial

    Chimera, I'm sorry, but your scenario scares me more than people getting along and being friends. I have to disagree with you. When you are a married couple, with the marriage being primary, there's no way a selfish/arrogant person would be welcomed into the family unit in any fashion (friends...
  4. openbj

    What are your "What ifs"

    My biggest What If right now is, What if I'm actually poly as well? You'll have to read my latest blog entry to see what I'm talking about: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12461
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    Poly Women Respond

    Well, think of it this way: If a woman has more than one child, people don't question whether she loves each of them wholly and completely. So, why is it questioned that she would also have the ability and heart to love more than one man wholly and completely?
  6. openbj

    This is so weird but also exciting lol

    Figured I should update a little. I haven't disappeared lol. After my last post about going to the lake, J got really sick with strep. Turns out, the lake has been tested and found to have toxic algae in it :( He's the only one that got sick though (literally by the next morning). The boys...
  7. openbj

    What are your "What ifs"

    Love this statement!!! That's exactly how I try to live my life as well.
  8. openbj

    What are you listening to now?

    J strumming around on the guitar, being silly. Time to plug my bass in and join in on the fun!! If only I could set up my mic to sing as well.
  9. openbj

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Warm is not a problem for us right now lol. It's 10:43pm here and still 101 degrees F!! :( This has been the HOTTEST summer ever for us. I work outside 2 days a week for a local company that does yard maintenance for pets and found the little one in one of the yards (glad the dog wasn't...
  10. openbj

    More women, more PMS

    I can relate!! Except that it's just me, the only female in the house. I was feeling snappy and angry and sad and jealous and, well, every emotion under the sun yesterday. But, I actually caught myself this time and recognized it for what it was instead of lashing out at J (like I really...
  11. openbj

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Rescued a baby bird that had fallen out of it's nest in a pole bird house. We're going to feed it and take care of. Hopefully it'll survive until it's ready to fly! It's a little Robin :)
  12. openbj

    No Machine Required Ice Cream

    For vanilla you would just use the base (whipping cream and condensed milk) and then add in 1 tsp. vanilla extract. It's really not a lot of work at all. We had it all mixed up and in the freezer in about 10 minutes. Longest part was waiting for it to freeze lol. If you have a mixer (hand...
  13. openbj

    No Machine Required Ice Cream

    Apple Pie ice-cream: 2 cups cold heavy whipping cream 1 can sweetened condensed milk 1 small apple 2Tbs sugar 2Tbs brown sugar 1tsp vanilla extract 3Tbs butter Chop the apples into small chunks. Throw in a pot with the sugars, vanilla, and butter. Cook over a medium heat until bubbly and...
  14. openbj

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Went to the lake with the family to beat the heat. Had sno cones in town. Made ice cream (delicious!!). Yeah, it was a really great day!
  15. openbj

    No Machine Required Ice Cream

    In retaliation of all the heat that we've been having here in the USA, I figured I'd share a nice, quick ice cream recipe for you to all enjoy. This is the recipe for Lemon Icebox Pie ice-cream: 2 cups cold heavy whipping cream 1 can sweetened condensed milk 1 teaspoon lemon extract 3...
  16. openbj

    This is so weird but also exciting lol

    J is still really working on the NRE :) I love that man!! Today, we took the boys to the lake down the road and had a great time. We didn't stay too long 'cause it was 113 degrees (F). Scorcher!! While we were there he really focused on family time and left his phone on the beach. I...
  17. openbj

    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Lol, I'll take Shark Week any day over this crud!! Shark Week is one of our favorite times of year :) I started cracking up earlier. One of the aunts posted in our family group on FB with a question about pictures for his stepmom. She replied today that she'd talk to Dad about it when she...
  18. openbj

    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Well, J's dad talked to him tonight. Told him that he wants us out of the house by the end of August. He wants his wife to not be so stressed and what not. She's doing it to herself, it's not our fault. But, whatever. We were already hoping to be moved to NM by the end of August anyways for...
  19. openbj

    Which way to turn?

    BHAHAHAHAHA I love your little rant there. I'm at the same point right now with J's stepmom and his family. Luckily though, she left for San Antonio this morning to visit her sons for a while. Who knows what kind of stories she'll come up with from there though lol. Let's just say, her...
  20. openbj

    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I have to laugh. His stepmom has decided that she can no longer handle the stress of what she has created in her mind and even told others that J is doing (most of which is all false and full of lies). So, she just hit the road to go visit her sons in San Antonio for a while. At least we...
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