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  1. openbj

    This is so weird but also exciting lol

    Well, in the mean time of us finding a girlfriend for J, he would really like for me to step outside of my comfort zone and try either a spouse swap with a couple or a threesome (me with him and another guy or him with me and another girl) or me with another guy and him watching or him with...
  2. openbj

    How long have you been poly?

    I've noticed that there is a huge range of longevity here in the forums. So I'm wondering, how long have each of you been poly or in a poly relationship?
  3. openbj

    UPDATE: for those following "Will you be my husband's girlfriend"

    We've already discussed just about everything in that quote together lol. We may not be able to meet face to face right now, but we do all still talk on a daily basis. Actually, comparing that list to how we relate with D now, it really isn't much different, except with her being J's...
  4. openbj

    UPDATE: for those following "Will you be my husband's girlfriend"

    I understand where ya'll are coming from, I really do. But, she has lived with us in the past already, just as a roommate and good friend. We all had a blast! Like I said, we're hoping to move to her school town so that she doesn't have to look at transferring schools. She would still live...
  5. openbj

    Looking into poly

    I'm 30 and he's 31. We've been married for 12 1/2 years. He was not a virgin when we got married. His high school years were filled with the life of multiple partners and dates. Even being married, he has still had other partners and relationships. But for me, he's the only one ever. I made...
  6. openbj

    Tats & Piercings?

    One tat: burnt orange Longhorn on my right outer ankle (HOOK 'EM HORNS!!!) Ears have two holes each, both nipples pierced. Had a cartilage on my left ear, but it kept getting irritated so I took it out years ago. Plans for my next piercing is a dermal necklace across my collar bone (about...
  7. openbj

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Easy enough. Our marriage is open, my name begins with B, and hubbies begins with J. It just so happens to work out to be kinda sexually funny as well. ;)
  8. openbj

    facebook change!!! YAY!

    We're new on Google+ as well. Still trying to figure it all out. We're loving this for being able to share our new polyamory relationship with only the people we want to. Everyone else that we know would attack us and bash us, even though we know they love us, will stay on FB and we'll talk...
  9. openbj

    Physical descriptions

    Well, I'm 5'4 1/2" (yes, I cling to that half inch, I'm the shortest one in my family and my boys are about to outgrow me lol). 118 lbs. Caucasian, but am 1/4 Cherokee (so I tan wonderfully!!), green eyes with dark green rims around the inner color (I absolutely adore my eyes, favorite...
  10. openbj

    UPDATE: for those following "Will you be my husband's girlfriend"

    Last night brought about a whole shrew of gear changes!!! All for the good. I was chatting with a friend of ours (female). We were just chatting, nothing serious, just enjoying visiting with one another and catching up. Well, things just took a natural direction towards poly talk. I opened up...
  11. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    I'm going to start a new thread with this, 'cause it's just amazing!!
  12. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Last night brought about a whole shlew of gear changes! All for the good. I was chatting with a friend of ours (Ella). We were just chatting, nothing serious, just enjoying visiting with one another and catching up. Well, things just took a natural direction towards talking about polyamory. I...
  13. openbj

    Polyamorous vs Promiscuous - A Question of Motive

    Haha!! Just from your description of the community you live in, I already knew what area of the country you where in. Hubby and I moved from North Central KY a few months ago and it was exactly like that!! In fact, your description of the area and distance from larger towns sounds a lot like...
  14. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Just to update: Ariel unfriended me on FB. She was only friends with me, not Eric. She has not made any contact with Eric or me since everything yesterday. I guess the friendship was lost over wanting to bring her in. :( We're not going to let this get us down, though. Eric still has Tiana to...
  15. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Well, it got spelled out to Ariel tonight. Her opinion is, because Eric is poly, and I'm okay with that, and am now ready to let him be who he is, he doesn't love me like a husband should. She stands very strongly that a marriage is one man, one woman, and that if you marry the right person, it...
  16. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Yes, she is having a difficult time overcoming the teachings of the Church, which are inaccurate to the teachings of Scripture. She believes that we are making a moral and ethical mistake. She asked me for proof from the Bible that God is not anti-poly, and I gave her a couple, but she has...
  17. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    I'm pretty sure. But I do plan to spell it out later after she's had some time to cool and chew. I had planned on telling her that it was her last night when we were talking like that, but she never responded back and logged off.
  18. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Okay, I did talk to her tonight, but not about any of this. I don't want to overwhelm her. We just talked friendly-like, and joked about some stuff, had a good time. I'm trying to just let her to chew on some stuff. She did admit tonight that she was really upset with Eric because of this...
  19. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Quick update: Neither Eric nor I have heard from Ariel at all today. :( But she also hasn't deleted me as a friend on FB. I hope it's just because she's sorting through her emotions and searching her heart.
  20. openbj

    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Ariel and I are talking! She said she was pissed at Eric for causing me to think this way because of his affairs. (Je had others in the past, but he only truly loved her.) I told her it's not his fault that he loves someone other than just me. A: He loves everyone else. Me: He lusts for...
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