Search results

Let's be honest here. Twins are on every male's bucket list. lol

Let me start off by saying, I'm sorry you had to experience this scene with your two best friends. I understand your wanting to open up or experiment in your marriage. I have some issues with how it was handled and, if you don't mind, would like to play devil's advocate from the male point of...

Yes RP....Firstly, I don't think she be able to comprehend the idea in any way, then I think she'd stroke out! I can't do that to her. We'll just muddle along with her for as many years as she has left.

This sounds so good, you three. Redpepper, your husband did a damn fine job with putting that info out there for everyone. He must be a helluva guy. Isn't it a wonderful feeling to get closer to your truth? Isn't it wonderful to be so familiar, so in tune with your "family" that you don't feel...

I've known some really needy mono folk in my day, and some very aloof.........then again, I'm the poly one here and have been very comfortable being a loner type of guy my whole life. I have no issue at all with being off alone on vacation by myself or sitting quietly by the lake for days at a...

I can tell you from the 8 months I've been in a poly lilfe, there's been tons of soul searching, heartache, joy and ecstasy......more frustration than I had ever encountered but then again, more fulfillment, too. Hope you can work things out to your heart's desires......

I am curious about the long history you've had with this guy, making out, but never really hooking up. Either it's not right for you two, or...? Is there a chance he and his new gf are poly? Maybe you can still approach him? Why are you suddenly sad after all these years? Haven't you each dated...

The perfect reply, Nyx.

Not being judgmental, Paul. Just trying to inject a little levity. I see nothing wrong with it, just a few potential pitfalls. I hope everything and everyone works out for you, of course. Best of luck!

I too, was raised by a great catholic mother with the mother of all martyr complexes....if I only had a nickel for every item she's offered up for the Lord.......I simply refuse to feel guilty, about anything. I see only pain, sufferring and hurtful emotions arising from it. Sorry, life's too...

1. Yes, my two loves (both women) are built a little different anatomically, are wired differently emotionally and prefer different things in the bedroom. 2. As could be expected, my wife of 27 years has a little different sex drive than I do(hence me poly).....and my OSO (other lifelove) is...

Our sons and my other love's daughter are all off to college and know nothing, other than we are all dear friends who've spent 20 years doing things together. Surely they know we all share some kind of deep friendship/love together, but don't know the actual details or living arrangements we...

Lemodrop and Redpepper raise great points and make a compelling argument. I'd have to agree with both of them. Destiny, you too.

Lol Mono....I've heard that about you!

Hi, Redpepper. Nice to hear from you! I'll try to answer as many of your questions as possible. I think the way you are moving at the speed your husband is comfy with would be a nice way to do it. We had planned to integrate my other love into our lives slowly, over about a year. However...

AJ, it sounds like you're pretty in tune with what's driving your psyche. Intimacy issues, trust issues, jealousy and emotional abandonment-- what a smorgasbord! It isn't hard to see why you feel the way you do. Obviously, fears need to be dealt with adequately for you two to be able to move...

Interesting topic! Just when you think you've heard every possible combination... Depending on the relationship the sisters have had prior, this could be really cool or tremendously f'd up. I vote for Jerry Springer!

Glad to have you aboard!

Hello and welcome!

You're in a good place, welcome!