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Seems like you're on the right track, though. By that I mean that you're not hiding anything from anyone. Quath is right, you don't want to start doing that now. Make sure that you have those completely open (or naked as I like to call 'em... lol) lines of communication. They aren't always the...

Mono, I read your post and thought, wow, he's in a great place. Then I saw that the kid wants to have you stay over because he likes watching TV with you in the morning. That's awesome. :) Congrats on the success of your relationship. I wish you all the very best.

Welcome to the forum! Enjoy your stay here. :)

Hey from the other side of the nation!! LOL Welcome and enjoy the forum. :)

Well said Laz!

Thanks New. I try. LOL Alpha, sorry for the mixup. Thanks for clearing it up. :)

Welcome Laz. Enjoy your stay here and good luck!

I don't think it's taboo, so long as the right reasons are in place. I am slightly scared of the term hook up though. Just has certain implications. Anyway, welcome and good luck finding what you are all looking for. :)

Yeah, that's another one of those time things. In my experience in this lifestyle, that was the only thing that really showed my wife that I didn't love someone else more than her. That, along with constant, and I mean constant, reassurance. Make sure your wife knows that it's not a comparison...

Good luck, Claire! I also hope that everything is well with your daughter.

Yikes, I'm very sorry. But as Mono said, there are ups and downs. Also remember that this lifestyle isn't for everyone. It may, or may not be for you, but I do hope that you find someone(s) to treat you right. Everyone deserves that. Good luck and don't be a stranger.

Hey, newatthis. This is definitely the right place if you want advice and some great friends! I've only been a member for a short time and I love it here. Tell us some more about what you're looking for or want. Have you ever had any experience with polyamory? Inquiring minds want to know! :)

You are now ready for the Jedi Poly trials. (Man, I'm a geek!!) Seriously though, you hit it right on the head. Open and honest communication is key. I'm not going to wish you luck, because I'm sure you all will work this out. If you have any other questions, please ask. Also, let us know how...

Welcome to the forum. Hope you find what you're looking for.

Awesome! It's definitely a scary thing at the start. You have to be more open with these people then you've ever been in your life. (This is why I say that my wives and I have a healthier relationship than most of our mono friends. They just don't talk.) I'm sure that it'll get easier and easier...

I think you've gotten one of the biggest pieces, communication. You all have to be able to talk about everything that goes on in your relationships. When my wife and I first started out, we had a lot of the same issues/concerns. I needed to make sure that my wife understood that the new...

Welcome to the forum! My wives and I felt the same way about raising children. It only seemed right to have more adults to care and love them. Then we realized that children really weren't for us after all. LOL Either way, welcome and we look forward to getting to know you better. :)

WELCOME!! Look forward to getting to know you and your partners better.

Congrats Mono. On both being able to call the 'rents and tell them what you did. And moreso on your growing relationship! :)

Yikes! If you aren't getting time to see him, then how are in a relationship? I don't mean to sound crass, but I only have my own personal experience in the lifestyle to go against, and keeping either of the girls out of the loop was never an option. Again, we have a different set-up than some...