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TRIADS ROCK!!! Ok, I'm partial, but seriously a triad is flippin awesome!! :D i wish you all kinds of luck and keep doing what you're doing. Communication is key and finding the way that works best for you and your SO is so important. Just because my triad works, doesn't mean it's going to...

BIG RED FLAG!!! Def sounds like your gf is MAKING it a competition!! I think you guys needs to sit down and have a very open and honest conversation about what exactly you both are looking for.

Why is that? Is it a competition? Those are questions that when answered honestly will help you move past these feelings. :) Good luck and keep us posted.

Exactly! Unfortunately it took our first gf passing away for us to realize that we were going to live our lives our way and didn't need/want anyone's approval. We were just helping a "friend" who needed a place to stay, and it was horrible to have to hide our relationship when we were with...

Hi True. Welcome to the boards. I hope you enjoy your stay here. :)

Deep breaths!!! One thing that I always remembered when trying to find someone for my wife and me was that my marriage always came first. Even if it was someone that was more for me, she still had to be comfy with that person. I gotta be honest, I would have nixed a person who said they didn't...

MORE NJ FOLK!!! Welcome to the boards!! I'm sure you'll meet lots of awesome people and get some great advice.

YIKES!!! Not cool of J to say that he doesn't care about B's feelings. I'm in a triad and I don't have much experience with a V relationship, but I'm pretty sure that feelings like those aren't going to make for a healthy relationship, for anyone. You were right on the money to put J in his...

It's the lil things. Just got off the phone with R. Had a nice 25min phone conversation about absolutely nothing and I can't stop grinning like a fool. The sound of her voice truly is like music to my ears. She calls and her smiling face pops into my head and it's GREAT! Then I sit and...

Thanks for the friends request. You give GREAT advice and this site is lucky to have you as a member.

I can't imagine where any of these things would be too much. Most if not all women are going to appreciate you taking that much time and putting that much thought into doing something special for her. I'm sorry that things are rough right now, but that doesn't mean it's the end. COMPLETELY...

Welcome to the forum! I hope you enjoy your stay here, though I'm sure you will. :)

Hey Jodi. Tough spot she put you in. I agree that she shouldn't have involved you in her lies, although now that she did, what do you do?? The part of me that is against cheating is screaming for you to tell him. But is that the right answer? Obviously there are issues if she feels the need...

Welcome and congrats on the pregnancy!!

It's sad but true, but most men are pigs. A frequent topic of convo in our home. I think that the internet has made it even worse. Broadens the "hunting ground" for those predators. The only way to sort through who's real and who's not is by really getting to know them and trusting your gut...

I hold on to the hope that one day she'll see that this life can be very fulfilling. However, until then she knows that I'll always be here for her.

Good luck Ray, and we're all here if you need the support. I hope it works out for you.

I've been with my wife for 12 years and I've never thought of myself as clingy because I told her that I loved, needed, or wanted her. She's your wife, that's exactly how you're supposed to feel. I'm a little concerned with her responses to you. When my wife and I first embarked on this...

While I agree with you wholeheartedly, Dear Abby isn't about tolerance. It's about seeking advice for a particular situation. Not everyone is going to agree with our lifestyle. That's ok. This person has a small mind and will NOT open up to any other possibilities. She's made it clear...

Sorry to hear about your situation, Pantheist. You said that Morgan was mono from the start. Well, much as she got into a poly relationship with you, you got into a mono relationship with her. Lemme try and explain. While she was first with you, you was poly and with others, but she herself...