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Hi Ciel and thank you!!

Hey everyone. 31 year old been with my wife for 12 years, and our gf for 3. We live together as a triad and are extremely happy. I think this is a lifestyle that is wonderful if done correctly. I hope to share my experiences to help those who are new to the lifestyle, as well as to learn...

Hi Coco. Welcome and I hope you find the answers you're looking for. For me I had a lil help with this when I had to tell my friends that I preferred big women. A bunch of people thought it was a phase and I'd find a nice thin woman to make me happy. BAH!! I had to deal with explaining to...

RPCrazy, YOU ROCK!! I loved this convo and yes. Most all of those thoughts have crossed my mind at one point or another. :D

Great point and as always full of wisdom. It's like I tell people who say that they don't base who they choose on looks. We're animals, which means that we have certain physical reactions that just happen. That intense physical reaction you get could indeed be the start of something great...

I wish I had a better solution for you, but alas I don't. Just keep talking with her about where she's at. Good luck.

*HUG* I'm sorry and I hope things start to look up for you. Just remember to keep your chin up and everything happens for a reason.

Hmmm. Quite a situation you're in. My only concern is that it seems that you've done a good job of understanding your wife's poly needs and the relationship that she has with her friend, while she doesn't seem to be extending the same courtesy to you. Now I know that you said that it started...

You say that you don't "think" that she's on the same page. What has she told you? Is she ok with expressing her feelings about this to you? Congrats on being able to finally spit it out. I know how tough that can be at times, and I also know how AMAZING it feels when you can really really...

Thanks for sharing your story. In regards to your first question, your feelings are never petty. We are human and are entitled to feel whatever it is that we feel. You said that you and your SO are great at communicating and that's a huge step in the right direction. You said that you and...

WELCOME!! First let me commend you and your husband for being together for so long! It's always nice to see longevity like that. :) As far as your questions go, you answered your first one! Well, at least as far as I go anyway. LOL Love, Trust, and Communication are the foundations to...

Just a question. Have you been talking to your wife about your feelings? As the feelings come up?

I'm sorry that he's going through that, but it might be something for you to look at. Why is she leaving? It seems that he may have a bit too much going on right now. I wish you the best.

I think this is the best course of action. If you push the issue your wife may think you have ulterior motives.

You're very welcome and I agree!

Loved reading that post. Also loved your analogy of vomiting up something poisonous. That's what I love most about these boards. You can do just that and not have to worry bout getting any splatter on anyone. :D Good luck and thanks for sharing. I hope it helped (although it seems it did).

*hug* Just cause.

Welcome! As far as suggestions, it seems like you're well on your way. My only concern is that your bf could potentially think that your reasoning behind wanting to explore the poly lifestyle is due to his medical problem. I'm sure you'll assure him that's not the case, but I know us men...

I dunno what happened, but welcome! :D

Welcome to the forum! I think you're on the right track, but as Ariakas said you have to make sure that you have a healthy relationship with hubby. I think it's great that you have realized what the issues are and are taking the right steps to rectify them. Like AT, I'm concerned that hubby...