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You never know. I think that any conversations you have need to be with your wife first. Remember, things have to go along the time lines of the person who's least comfy. You've already said that you're taking it as it comes and I completely think that's the best course of action. It took my...

Agreeing with everyone else on this one. I would imagine that things would be much better if everyone got along. To me that shows a sign of respect that is absolutely necessary in this lifestyle.

Love Eddie Izzard!! What are your concerns?

Very true. I know a lot of people who weren't too sure about our relationship before they met us. Soon as they saw the 3 of us in action they realized that we are really just another triad. Well, you know what I mean. ;) None of us here know him as well as his daughter and if she feels...

Just wanted to come through and say hi. Welcome to the forums. :)

I'm in the SAME situation minus the kids. Used to live in Columbia, SC too! Welcome to the boards and I'm sure you'll meet some good guys here.

Welcome and thanks for sharing and I agree with River. Sometimes a little explanation goes a long way. :) Look forward to seeing you around.

Started out calling her our gf, now she's the wife. If I have to specify when I'm talking to someone, I call them by name (which is bizarre since at home we all go by pet names...lol) or if I refer to them together, then they are my girls. Hope you find one that suits everyone. :)

Welcome to the boards. :)

To answer your question, I don't think so. One of the things that I always talk about on here is communication and how important it is. I have to agree with your hubby on this one. You didn't do anything wrong and these were her issues. I've never hidden anything from my wife OR anyone that...

*standing o* Absolutely right. IMO the only way you can have a successful poly relationship is having the trust that your core relationship will never be affected. Our gf even said that one of the things that helped her make the decision to accept our offer to move in was that bond between my...

I'm with Schrod on this one. He may be a "cool" dad which may be why she suggested it, or maybe she just wanted you guys there as moral support. Definitely food for thought.

Been with my legal wife for 12 years and we've known our wife for 6 years, but she's been living with us for just over 2 1/2 years. We're in this for the long haul. :D

WELCOME!! Thanks for not being a "researcher" anymore. :D Look forward to hearing more about you and your situation. :)

Oh, and as far as other people viewing your choice in disgust, so what?? Do they pay your bills? Do they help make decisions for you? No, then their opinion doesn't matter. I know that's easier said than done, but I had to learn the hard way. Mine and my wife's first gf passed away before...

You're human and new to this. Of course you're plagued with doubts, but you've answered your own question! "...I have already been more open and truthful to those two people then I have ever been with anyone..." Your doubts will only be assuaged through communication. Keep those lines as...

Welcome to the boards. Your name caught my attention as I'm a fan of anything jiggly. :D Enjoy your stay here and I know you'll meet some great people. :)

Welcome and thanks for sharing your story. :)

Definitely a bit different, but my wife and I realized we were poly by first having 3somes. At the start there were ALL sorts of rules that she had. As time passed and she saw that I was respecting those rules, she started removing a few. By talking and sorting through our feelings, TOGETHER...

Thank you. :)