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I've been away forever, but reading this has reminded me of all the wisdom that RedPepper has. Very well said. :)

Good possibility, but they still should have called and let them know. I know I'm a HUGE worry-wort and I'd have been a wreck. Not calling was a major gaffe on their part. JMO :)

As they say, honesty is the best policy, but everyone's gotta learn that on their own. ;) I'm glad that things are turning around and heading in the right direction. :) Good luck and keep us posted!

I agree, that labels don't always work for everyone, but for it's just a lil easier, ya know?? :) Like you said, all that matters is that everyone in your family is HAPPY!! That's what I wanna see!! :D Thanks for sharing your story!

Thanks AT, and I LOVE your signature!! :D

Believe me as a lover of big women I COMPLETELY understand that women are as insecure as us men. This was def a case of just reading things too literally. ;) BUT, where as women tend to show their insecurities a bit more, men feel the need to hide them and it's not always the first thing a...

well said!!

Couldn't agree with you more, and one of our favorite sayings is that there's a lid for every pot! :D I'm sure you guys'll find other's, but one thing. You said that you thought it was odd that they didn't give you their number. Follow your gut. ;)

Actually, I think you're doing quite well as far as being poly is concerned. :) You took your time in developing the feelings towards your friend, and you discussed things with your husband. A suggestion though. You said that you're not sure this is how you want to live your life. Who said...

BALLS! I'm sorry they did that. I know what you mean about wanting something to have happened so that you had a reason, but remember that what goes around comes back around. So, you'd actually rather hope that they stood you up so that they get stood up in return. :D Good call on trying to...

Thank you Ariakas!! :D Breathesgirl, I'm not sure I followed who's with who, but you're all happy and that's ALL that matters!! :D Kudos and good luck!

So I write this post because there's so much hardship on these boards. I know that it is a part of the process, but sometimes you wanna read the good stuff right?? I know I do! :) So, my wife and I have been together for 12 years, married for 7, and have had a live in gf for 2. Our family...

Not gonna lie, not a fan of his behavior towards you. She's obviously got an issue and is excluding you and he's allowing it. While this lifestyle does take work, it takes work on EVERYONE'S part. Including the other woman. Talk to him again about how you're feeling, and be as CLEAR as...

Communication, communication, communication!! When people ask me what makes this lifestyle work so well for me I tell them that the girls and I have NO secrets whatsoever. When one of them is feeling down about something we have to talk about it. Communication leads to some not so pleasant...

We men are insecure creatures. My suggestion is that you be COMPLETELY open with him as you just were here. Tell him your thoughts and points of view on the differences between sex and love. There is indeed a difference. Make sure you let him know that it's not because you want to sleep...

Hi everyone. My name is Danny and I've been VERY naughty. I've been away from this forum for entirely TOO long and I'm very sorry about that. I hope you all can forgive me. :confused: Anyway, I look forward to getting reacquainted with some and getting to know others! :D

That is AWESOME Quath! Watch out, here we come folks!

Mono, you are indeed right. Poly isn't something that you can force on someone. I would never even think to try and do that, but I so freaking wish that she was Poly. I mean she would fit with us so well. And, it doesn't help that I can't control my feelings about her. But, I know that...

Mono, I wish I could have you talk to someone who just doesn't get the poly lifestyle because she's mono. I'd love to have her as a part of our family, but that will never be. *sigh* Kudos to you for being open minded and understanding and being able to work through the concerns.

Newest update. My friend emailed and texted me, and we're back in good standing. I know I need to keep my feelings in check, but damn if I don't get that feeling that it's a little more for her, too, but she isn't comfortable with that idea. Interesting I say, interesting...