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RaleighGuy, I say as long as you're comfortable with how things are going, then why bother with labels? (Not that there's anything wrong with labels.) As far as they go, I would agree with Mono about your status. I think it's great that you were able to work through your concerns because you...

We're all getting matching tattoos as well. Maybe you get tattoos of rings? Food for though.

You hit it right on the head. I said from go, that it didn't matter because I have such a happy and healthy home life already with my girls. But damn does it suck when things go awry like that. BALLS, I SAY!! Everyone should just be poly, and that's that! (Really, I'm kidding, no, I swear!)

Congrats Mell!! The wives and I are actually going to have a commitment ceremony as well in 2013. We needed to wait that long as that's the next time that my wedding anniversary rolls around. That marks 10 years that my wife and I will be married so we're going to renew our vows, then bring...

I see a couple of options here. One of which you already said and that's so long as you're comfortable with the type of relationship that you have with an individual, does it matter what they call it? Secondly, explain to your lovers exactly what you think. That your men are your men and they...

Cherrygirl, what are your thoughts now? You've gotten a lot of good feedback. Just curious.

Welcome CJ. Mark said it best. There's a different type of poly relationship for every person out there. It just had to be something that works best for everyone involved. I also want to ask a question. Are you ok with poly because you feel like this is the only choice you have to keep your...

Wow! Welcome, welcome, welcome. I'm sorry that you guys have all had to go through such major changes to be a triad. I'm thrilled that you are making it work no matter what. "...but love is conquering those each day." I love that line and shows what being Poly is all about. I wish you guys...

Welcome to the forum look. I definately think that what you're looking for is more along the lines of swingers. There's a definate difference. My wife and I started out by trying to spice things up in the bedroom. So we'd bring the occasional woman in and we'd all have our fun. Then, one...

Damn Y. I'm sorry. Wanna go to a bar or something?? :)

Update... She told me today that she thinks it's best if we don't talk for a bit. She feels guilty that she's brought these feelings out, and can't give me what I want. I don't often question this, but maybe I should have kept my mouth shut. Oh well, such is life. Thanks again, everyone.

Thanks all. Vamp, it SUCKS!! Thanks for the words of wisdom and advice. The last week or so has been tough, but you're right. I have to try and make my heart see what my head sees. Thanks again, all.

SUCKS!! LOL I laugh because there's no other choice. I've known her for 4 years and she's known about my lifestyle the entire time. She's always said that she could never be more than just friends. She couldn't share. I TOTALLY understand that. I say all the time that this lifestyle isn't...

Welcome! You say that you've been happily married for 10 years. I think the proof of the pudding is in the taste. Don't you think that if your husband wanted to find someone else, he would have, by this point? My wife had many of the same fears when we first started out. There are two things...

Always better to be safe than sorry Alhena. Asking just prevents you from being surprised and possibly hurt down the road. :)

It's always been the wife and gf when I introduce people. But we're moving into "these are my wives." It's amusing to watch people's faces as they realize I'm not joking. LOL

ROCK ON MONO AND RED!!! I"m so happy for you guys. There are indeed too many stories of struggle on this board. Don't get me wrong, that's what this board is all about, but it's always wonderful to read a success story! I'm thrilled for you guys and look forward to many more happy stories!!

I can only see one thing that you might do differently, and you've already realized this. You have to tell these men up front about your situation. Explain to them from the start what they're about to get into. Give them that choice. This will also avoid you falling for someone that's only going...

I'm sorry. It sounds like you're in a pretty rough spot. How long have your bf and his wife been poly? Your situation reminds me a lot of how my first wife and I were at the start. It almost seems as if your bf's wife is jealous and really only wants to be polyamorous herself, and have your...

Welcome! I'm glad that you and your husband are going through the motions together. Definately makes things easier to work through.