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Barb, I'm glad that you're finding some of the answers that you're looking for. This forum is great and I so so so so so wish that I had it back when we started. LOL Anyway, There are definately many types of poly relationships out there that can work for you and your situation. It's just...

So I need some clarification to the post. Are you anti-fat?? That's kinda how it seems, but wasn't sure.

Do you think that he feels that you're only interested in this lifestyle as a means to get back at him for his infidelity? Just a thought. I also ask because like you said, he wasn't scared to do that 3 years ago, but is hesitant on losing you now. What's changed? As far as the life you're...

Welcome Amy!! Good luck on starting a meet n greet. Great idea!

Vamp you are more than welcome to message me or email me. Like I said, I'm still dealing with her loss today and know that I'm going to be for the rest of my life. I think it would help us both to talk. :)

It was my pleasure Mark, and I'm glad that I can give you hope through our stories. My wife and I weren't always out about our lifestyle. That only came about when we lost our first gf. I felt HORRIBLE that we had to hide our relationship and our love from our families. That was never going...

I'm gonna be honest. I think it's harder for straight men to be a part of a poly relationship. Like you said, it's all about the ego. Also remember that this lifestyle isn't always for everyone. I think a lot of people think this is just a means of legal cheating, which of course it's not...

HIIIIIIIIIII NIKKIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII!!! :) Look forward to getting to know you better. :)

Welcome to the forum Barb. I think it's great that you guys are open and willing to try new things. Just know that this may or may not work out. Don't be dissapointed if it doesn't. I'm not being a naysayer, believe me. I'm a very succesful triad and rave about my lifestyle to anyone that...

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME!!! This is a great place to ask questions and seek advice. It's been great for me and I've only been an active member for like...a week. Listen to Mono!! Keep those lines of communication open at all times!!

You guys sound a lot like my wife and I when we transitioned from swinging to being poly. We had a very similar conversation where I told her the same thing. I wasn't expecting this to happen!! She had much the same reaction as you did. There's only one thing that you can do in a situation...

Welcome to the forum baby. :) Hope you enjoy yourself as much as I have been the last couple of days. :)

Welcome to the forum. This is definately the place for you. I have one piece of advice. You said that you are trying to be as open as you can be. What's holding you back from being completely open? Also, what are some of your "issues". Once you have those out in the open it'll be easier...

River it is. :)

Thank you mark. I'd rather not have any insight on something like this, but since I do, I hope that I can provide whatever comfort possible. Thanks for the kind words Mark.

Hey Ember!! Welcome and enjoy your stay. :)

HI MARI!! Welcome (I know, I know we've already met on that other thread...lol)

WELCOME!! Please enjoy your stay here with us kooky poly folks!! :D

Thanks Mark!! I look forward to those discussions as this is seriously a GREAT forum. Please, please ask anything that you want. I'm an open book!!

Bingo!! Gotta figure out why you're uncomfortable now. Was there something in particular about this partner? You mentioned that you weren't sure if it was due to the fact that she's been having all the fun and you haven't. Do you think that's it but you don't want to say that because it just...