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Sending condolences, love and hugs. Sorry that things are so hard right now. Please take care of yourself. You will get through this!

Please do not beat yourself up. What you were given to handle was a messy situation. I don't think that stems from simple bias on your part. Clear, open, communication on ALL parties' parts is the only way these situations work without someone getting left holding the shitty end of a pointed...

Well, it's never too late to make new friends, is it? Maybe you could go on a local adventure. Meet some people who live closer. Do you have a hobby or something you've been interested in trying? I've recently taken up crochet to give me something to do in my down time. I just created a...

I love this explanation. A couple of weeks ago, my GF told me that her kids (she has 2, one who lives with her and another who is college bound), her BF (who lives in the same city as I - 200 miles from her) and her sister's family were all visiting. I was so happy for her yet found myself on...

Have you expressed this to her? Do you feel safe enough to right now? I know that being a mono with a poly is working for me because I DO feel that my gf is present, open, close to me, sharing with me. I never feel that I am shut out from any part of her life. I could not imagine feeling that...

Hilarity!

Hang in there. What resolution of this situation will unbreak your heart?

Yes. It feels wonderful to be happy when our loved one is happy, pleased, etc. I continue to amaze myself about being joyful when I think about how my GF's BF pleases, loves and supports her. It lets me know that this is a healthy choice for me.

I am female in a V. My bisexual GF has a BF who also has occasional sex with other men. We are all long distance, although the two of them share their living spaces in both cities. He and I actually live in the same city. My first dates with her included meeting him (first date) and a shared...

Dazed, I am glad that my words helped, but sorry that things are bad right now.

female, queer, involved in a ffm V

Wow. This situation sounds like a mess from my seat on the outside. I am so sorry you are going through it. I'm sorry that Nora picked a dickhead to become involved with. Maybe I missed it somewhere in this thread, but have you told her that you love her so much that the idea that this man...

Thanks, much. Life can be quite a lovely adventure when one opens to the idea...;)

I am the mono GF of a "binogamous" woman, who has a BF of a couple of years. While not married (and not gonna be), they do have a commitment to each other. Being the newcomer to this situation has its challenges, because they have a head start of intimacy, which is something I want in my life...

It's been a while due to scheduling and distance, but my gf and her bf and I hang out and it is a lovely time. In fact, my second date with her was dinner and convo with the three of us, and we've shared several more times of just being together, sharing movies, music and personal narratives...

I am a 42 year old lesbian and have been predominantly a serial monogamist for my entire life. I had a very brief, three person relationship with two other women in my mid-30s and dated a poly bisexual woman for a short time in my later 30s. Neither of those situations worked out as I had...