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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    SourGirl. Thank you for the suggestions and for the advice. There is nothing I disagree with. What you say makes sense, including the disclaimer. With the message we are discussing, though, the situation was slightly different. Her profile offered nothing I cold pick as a specific common...
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    That's a good job. Let's hope that they are sincere and are not looking for sucker, hungry for sex.
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    hyperskeptic, Somebody should write to this lovely couple of ladies and tell them to talk to a lawyer about child support before posting ads like theirs.
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    Below is a message I recently sent: Gosh, we are so, so different! You have an interesting profile, which is not surprising provided that you are an artist. Too bad that guys who are on the science side can't make such interesting photos. In any case, I have been told that I have intelligence...
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Sourgirl, I am commenting on what you wrote on 05-16-2011, 05:50 PM. It is old, but I am not sure if anyone has raised that particular issue yet. Yes, the last guy wrote you an awkward (to say the least) message. I haven't done like him, but would guess his reasoning. After sending...
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    it's so hard to find someone

    Thank you NYCindie, I am going to look at these threads right now.
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    it's so hard to find someone

    Vanille, In your last post, did you address me or the original poster? On a slightly different topic: I saw a topic on a different board where people reviewed dating profiles, posted by other members. Maybe we should start one here as well.
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    it's so hard to find someone

    Esarati300, I can feel your pain. I am not going to address the issues with your wife, others have already done. I'd chime in on the dating issue. Being a guy who gets passed over by women all the time can be quite frustrating. And the more frustrated one gets, the harder is to not look...
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    Dh asks for poly after 12 years mono marriage

    [Edit] I wrote the post below after reading the first couple of posts. From what I read after I saw that the situation is quite serious. In any case, my original post was meant as general advice: Longing, sometimes people honestly believe that they can fit in a strictly monogamous life with...
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    mental illness in the poly community

    ClariceK: Being on 11 meds sounds scary and sad. Did your docs even check the labels for drug-drug interactions? You may even have been taking the medication that would work for you (to quiet the voices), but in the company of other 10 its effect could have been nullified. I guess there are...
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    mental illness in the poly community

    Not all people who want to be poly have the courage to make the step. People who have bipolar may be more disinhibited during a period of mania which happens to be not so severe to make them dysfunctional. During such times a person is more likely to act and it takes only once to cross the...
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    Word Association Game!

    peanut
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    Word Association Game!

    material
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