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ahhh.. yes. The old "I have to be someone different when the wife is watching". I've been there too, in the past.. and you're right, it's not good. Let me guess.. if you were truly yourself, you'd be more attentive to the "third", maybe more romantic, more caring, but you can't because it would...

Indeed.. a tough spot to be in. My wife went through similar circumstances several times before we got together... and although she wasn't able to resolve the differences with her partners.... here's hoping that you can.

OR.. it doesn't. She may have actually changed her mindset on a permanent basis.. if that's so, then the honesty and communication are going to be your greatest allies. Definitely give her time to evaluate and decide.. but keep the dialogue open, as well. Make sure you're not individually...

@LovingRadiance, there are definitely different schools of thought in this area. At home, in private, our BDSM "play" definitely will normally include sexual aspects/genital contact. Specific types of play are certainly genital-oriented. However, we do sometimes (rarely) play in more public...

It sounds like you've made a responsible and mature choice to resist changing something just to change something. I have a good feeling about your future. My best wishes stay with you.

There's another angle here, I think. We're primarily looking at this from the "Polyamorous people discussing kink" angle. It's important to remember that kink is much more than just sex, too. I'm not sure Nadine is clear on that. Maybe she is, but I feel like she's confused and thinking that...

Actually I didn't firmly connect the two directly... I said "most likely" and that it's "possible". I would, if pressed, even insert "often" into that thought. Obviously there are individuals unique in their outlook in every demographic. I live with one every day.. I thank the stars for her...

Regardless of the label applied (although, for the record, "biamorous" or "panamourous" really feel like repetitive terms).. if you're bi or pansexual, you're interested in relations with either/any gender identification.. if you're open to relations with them, you're most likely open to...

I think that part of the problem is the reasonably common misconception that Poly means "sexual non-monogamy".. the misunderstanding that a lot of people have where they don't understand that it's caring, EMOTIONALLY intimate relationships that we want, not just sex. Add to that the masses of...