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I have a desire for my partner to tell me as much as she is willing about what she finds attractive and enjoys about her other boyfriend. I feel that this would help me to accept things for the way they are. I keep wondering and contemplating. I feel like I'm resisting, and that I would stop...

Hello, lovely poly people! I posted a thread here 6 weeks ago about comparing myself to one of my metamours. Fortunately, I've began to like myself more since then, so I no longer feel inferior to him. Monday morning, I admitted that I was feeling very insecure, because I thought that I said...

So, we are not supposed to compare ourselves to our metamours. How in the world do you people go about holding to that ideal? Honestly, that's what I view that concept as, just an ideal. I know that it is helpful not to compare ourselves to our metamours, but I think that in reality we do...

Hello, I'm new to the forum. I'm also new to actually being in a poly relationship, but I'm not new to the concepts of polyamory. Eight years ago, I had my first experiences with non-monogamy, by being involved with a couple that considered themselves to be swingers. Five years ago I...