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    That's exactly the way she explained it to me the first time. She pointed out that she didn't like the labels, but that she did live with and share finances with her hubby. I'm not sure if she still holds 100% to that view now. It may have been easier when she only had two lovers. Including...
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    Ceoli, it sounds like you have a great outlook on dating when most people around you have primaries. Yes, it can hurt. She is very sensitive to my feelings, though. It could be because she is very well educated on matters that involve the mind. I actually live in the same home as her other...
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    Experience Changed my Views I learned about polyamory and began to desire being in a poly relationship back in 2005. I didn't get involved in one until fall 2009. Before being in that relationship, I always felt that I'd prefer to have one primary, and then one or two secondaries. Now that I've...
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    Hello Everyone

    Hello, I'm new to the forum. I'm also new to actually being in a poly relationship, but I'm not new to the concepts of polyamory. Eight years ago, I had my first experiences with non-monogamy, by being involved with a couple that considered themselves to be swingers. Five years ago I...
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