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    Article: Why Therapists are Down on "Alternative" Sex

    Two things... One is Thank you ! It took me a year to tell my therapist and she is the best one I've ever met.... thats saying a lot because I have had counselling and therapy for around fifteen years (long story) I was also afraid that because of my lifestyle and beliefs she might report me and...
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    Touch

    I am very open to many about my background. In responce to this I say it varies. I was molested as a child and went through a rough time. I remember wanting to be hugged and held and being afraid of it too. It has affected me a lot in relationships. I say this because I know I am not the only...
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    Am I thinking about this in the right way?

    @redpepper- Thank you for that thought. I am still learning about myself and my own feelings on things and never have looked at compramise like that. I will think of it myself and how I feel about it... hrmmmmm :confused:
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    Glossary and Definitions

    If I am understanding this correctly, a "unicorn" is a bi girl who is looking for a poly relationship who is not already in a relationship. If that is so, I was a unicorn about two years ago. LOL!!
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    Am I thinking about this in the right way?

    I am rather new as well but it seems to me you know what to do. Asking the ex is good but I think you need to communicate with your current GF. She needs to know your feelings because she is someone you are close to now. If it becomes wierd then it might not be right for you. Thinking on what...
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    Sleeping Arrangements and Beds: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    In our home, I sleep in my own room and my housemates sleep together. I am invited in regularly to sleep when one is gone or when we all want to be together. I do not like to sleep with others, for the most part, so they come into my room and sometimes are there most of the night. We really...
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    Idealist Poly Blog

    Thank you for your honesty and for just showing me that what I feel and experience is not all different. I am in a poly relationship for two years and I really enjoy it. We have our moments like any relationship does but I am very happy to be here with them. So Thanks for your openness :)
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