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Led Zepplin, Nina Simone, and Linkin Park Marvin's story- First off, I am using the musical references that I feel describe each of us out of respect for our families who don't know and wouldn't understand our situation. Linkin Park is me- kinda young, fast paced, and energetic with a little...

Hello A Very glad to meet you. I am Marvin - I cannot say that I have always been poly but can say that I am glad that I am now!! I truthfully wouldn't trade my relationship with S & R for anything they are wonderful ladies that mean the world to me. I look forward to hearing about you and your...

Feat = great... Sorry stupid iPhone autocorrect. :)

Lizzy I completely agree with what Vixtoria has said here. My family is an extremely happy and healthy triad that has been through MUCH in the past 5 years yet we persevere and remain great friends and happy lovers to this very day. I am the husband and my wives have been together for 10 or so...

Hello freelovedove Welcome to the community and best wishes on your journeys. I am quite sure that you will find that everyone here is more than willing to offer advice, stories, their experiences. All the best M

Stephanie What is going on with your husband is not polyamory nor do I see (from my standpoint) tendencies of such. Polyamory, first off, is built in trust, honesty, and communication - little of which I see in your husband actions. True he was honest with you eventually about this other woman...

Greetings Kiwi Welcome to the forum. It sounds to me like you are very well on your way to a happy relationship with your husband and best friend!! I do concur that it will take some getting use to but the fact that your focus is on the relationship between the three of you is awesome. I hope...

Greetings allhis After reading your post I think that you guys are on the right track as far as expressing your feelings and needs to each other and it sounds like you communicate well, which is key to a successful poly relationship. I do, however, feel like you have placed a hurdle or two in...

Hello to the three of you I look forward to hearing of your journeys,learning about your successes and experiences, and sharing some of ours as well. All the best M

Hiya Lizzy I completely understands those feelings of being "the only ones". As nancy said there is a ton of information and wonderful folks here. All the best M

Hi razor My wife (SuzyBird), R, and I just celebrated our 5 year anniversary in January. Congratulations on making the one year mark! All the best M

Hiya copectic Glad to "meet" you. Hope that you find many helpful friends and advice. I am new here as well and thus far have found this forum to be an outstanding resource full of great individuals.

I agree with Jim here.. Very well said!!

Hi nancyfore Thank you very much for the kind words. I do indeed have a lot to share (likely due in part to the lack of platform in which to say it!). Our triad is absolutely amazing - we compliment each other very well and have built our relationship on a firm foundation of friendship. There...

Have you and the 1st BF discussed this with each other- I can only assume so. She may be over compensating with him to ease his feelings...(??) One thing that I suggest is to promote (actively while you are all together ) the intimate contact between her and him and likewise between you and her...

Tsukune My wife and her GF were together (and both very close friends of mine) tor about 10years before I became a part of the relationship. I VERY much felt like a third wheel; a side order sometimes. Once the relationship between S and I began to strengthen it would be somewhat uncomfortable...

Welcome Jim I can completely understand your position- I was raised in a very stereotypical mono environment. Initially I felt both guilty and satisfied in my relationship with my ladies. While convention told me I was wrong my heart told me it was right. Luckily for me I followed my heart and...

Hello all- I am new to the polyamory forums but find it to be quite a relief to know there is a place to discuss and share experiences and advice without fear of the judgement that sometimes accompanies our lifestyle. I am in a closed triad - Suzybird is one of my wives. We have known one...

Hello windego13, Having been in a triad relationship for a little more than five years now I can honestly say that it is one of the most difficult, yet amazingly rewarding experiences, I have ever set upon. If you and your wife have another that you both want to be a part of your relationship I...