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:D Gotta say you are kinda kick ass right now Breathesgirl! Thanks!

eklctc, so cool with the meditation thing! I am buddhist, though newly so and am just really getting into meditation and yoga as a spiritual practice. I do believe in energies. The concept of a soulmate as a soul connection is very intriguing. It makes sense. I really like the idea! You...

Welcome, you are definitely in the right place!

Thanks, that is really sweet! You will definitely be hearing more from me on this site, I am very forward and not afraid to say what I think!

This is so true. I found it to be so when I was dealing with my attraction to women and figuring out if I was lesbian or straight or bi. That was a heck of a journey and in the end I knew I just had to be me. But, I have kind of been like that most of my life. Ultimately, who gives a fuck...

...plus there are many couples out there looking for a woman to date so if that's what you're looking for you probably won't have to look far! I know it does seem like that, right? Am I the fabled unicorn? From what I have gathered it is a woman who wants to be with more than one person but...

Unfortunately.... Okay, unfortunately, that is just a mono guy acting like a poly to get his way. He probably has tendencies like this in other areas of your relationship and does what he wants despite what you agree to or tell him you want. It is not a poly relationship if he pushed it on...

I find this whole discussion very interesting. What I wonder is why we seem to think that just because we apply the label poly that the rules change? The majority of people, men and women, cannot be blindly trusted. If the majority of men you run across as a mono are pigs, why wouldn't it be...

I don't have much to say except I feel for you. Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad for what you want in life. Especially if it does no real harm. And, I hope he appreciates how much you love him to tuck this side of you away for him. Good luck.

Quick question... .....um, your fiance is the open relationship but your soulmate isn't? Just wondering how your fiance feels about the fact that you call the other one your soulmate when he hasn't been around as long. Curious, does it bother him, even though he wanted to do the poly...

wow... well, I am not in the same boat but your honesty was so cool and so refreshing and so funny that I just had to write to you! Kudos to you! Lol. You really just made my night!:D

I so understand... Lol, I understand and don't think you sound mean or rude! I totally get it. I am bi and I don't want to choose between a man or a woman and have always joked about having one of each. People just laugh and shake their heads....;)

Wow... Thanks to everyone for your stories and honest answers! This was amazingly enlightening to me, which is what I was looking for. I do understand the legal ramifications and the need to protect the children, pass property on and spousal rights. That makes sense. It also makes sense that...

Cool.... Cool, those are all good ideas! Thanks. I will definitely be trying those out!:D

too true.. Thank you Ithink. :) I find myself to be so loving and so invested in the people that I care for. I do see the capability in myself to love more than one person at a time. I could definitely handle it. And, you are right, who is to decide? I feel like we all have our own path in...

I have a question, to new and old alike. What I don't understand is the need to make someone a husband or a wife and then have a gf or bf or a tertiary or whatever the other levels are. I understand the multiple relationships, the need to love and be loved by more than just one, I just don't...

:)Hello! It is nice to meet you! We sound very similar!

wow... :DI completely understand how you feel about the breath of fresh air thing and finding all these people who feel the same way. I never thought......who knew? Just wow.

Thanks! :)Thanks! I appreciate it. And I am feeling even more comfortable now that I have introduced myself and have been reading more threads! Life is crazy, isn't it? I never would have guessed that this is where I would be in a million years.

Well.... I am new to all of this but not new to the bullshit of someone saying what they think you want to hear and feeling something completely different. There is no way in hell you could convince me he really wants to live in a poly relationship with you and GG. He wants you, and since he...