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    Commitment?!?

    I was wondering if anyone here is in fully commited relationships with their multiple families. I would love to hear stories about your fmailies, especially families that have children. I know I want children (a lot... my husband always jokes about having 12 {through adopting, birth, and foster}...
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    Gender roles

    Right now, my husband and I both work and my GF is going to school. The three of us have talked about it, and some day I hope to be able to work only part-time and stay home with any children we have. My husband loves his work (he is a para at a school for behavior disorder students) and would...
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    Just wondering...

    Now, before I start this post, I want to say that I know I've asked a lot of questions on this message board because I'm new, and if this bothers anyone (or if this question in particular bothers anyone), please let me know. I was just wondering how to refer to my relationships with my husband...
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    Balance of power in poly relationships

    Shared Power? It is interesting in our house. My husband Nils has the power when it comes to sex and anything intimate in the relationship, mostly because he can get very jealous. The adding of my gf Katja is very new to us (6 months) so she and I want to make him feel as comfortable as...
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    Cute Letter

    If you are in a commited Poly Relationship, and especially if you consider yourself a Poly family (with kids) than check out this printable (funny/joke) letter!! :D Dear (insert name here), Thank you for your interest in joining our polyamorous family. We're pleased to know that you find our...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Boring? My name here is the same as everwhere else TahiraBS Tahira is my First name B for Beth my Middle name and S for Schmidt my married last name. Nothing exciting, exept some people give me funny looks when I say I'm Tahira B.S. ..... heheheheh :D
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    Fun quiz

    # First thing you wash in the shower? hear # What color is your favorite hoodie? don't own any # Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? Yes... my girlfriend # How are you feeling RIGHT now? Board # Tell me about the last dream you remember having? ?humm? # What are you craving right...
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    Polyamory Resources

    Awsome Website Check out this AWSOME website: http://www.polyfamilies.com/index.html This website has: * homeschool advice * Polyamory advice *budgeting/savings advice * Extreamly funny jokes I think this is an AWSOME website... tell me what you think! :D:p:D
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    My GF is leaving and I could use all of your excellent advice...

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. This advice is most heeded. Love does always find a way. I Katja ans I don't find a way (at all) than it must not be really love. I do believe that whatever happens, happens for a reason. I just forgot that for a moment. Thank you for the reminder. Guess what is...
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    Has this happened to any of you?

    I think Katja wants to get closer to Nils partly because of me (wanting to hold on to what we've got), but also because she cherishes her friendship with him and wants that to grow too. I know Nils loves her mind and spirit, but I don't think he is as attracted to her as I am (though we have had...
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    My GF is leaving and I could use all of your excellent advice...

    Thanks for the help. I don't want her to promise something she can't keep. Hmm... Maybe the three of us have more talking to do.
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    Word Association Game!

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    My GF is leaving and I could use all of your excellent advice...

    My GF, Katja, has to go back to Finland at the end of this month. :( Her visa for studying at our local university runs out. She won't be able to return for at least 2 years, possibly longer. She keeps telling us she will definitely return to the U.S. and to us. My husband Nils wanted to have a...
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    Has this happened to any of you?

    This has helped me a lot. Thank you all. Recently, the three of us had a serious talk about commitment, family, and love. Katja has to go back to Finland at the end of this month :( and won't be able to return for at least 2 years, possibly longer. Nils wanted to have a deep conversation about...
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    Word Association Game!

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    any vegetarians here?

    yep! :) I am a vegitarian and have been sing 2003 (wow 6yrs!!!) my Girlfriend eats a little meat but only when we go out and usualy just easts what ever I cook at home. My husband eats meat all the time and is actually the most picky of eaters between the three of us. :D (only eats about 10...
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    What do you think?

    I found this awesome website from a polyamorous family that homeschool and run a business together: http://www.polyfamilies.com/index.html On this website, if you search around a lot, you'll see the woman who is writing it calling her partners Husband 1, Husband 2 and Wife. I was wondering...
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    Has anyone been like this?

    Thank you for your thoughts, but I think I did not clarify myself very well. I was more asking if anyone felt like they wouldn't be poly at all if it weren't for the people they were in love with. I know if it weren't for my two lovers I definitely would not be poly. The idea had never entered...
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    Has anyone been like this?

    I am new to all this, so I don't know if anyone else feels this way, or if it is just me. A lot of you may know my story, as I have posted a few things here and there. I have recently gotten a girlfriend whom I love dearly. At the same time, I am married. What I was wondering was this: I know...
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    My Girlfriend is Breaking Up with her Girlfriend, Help me

    The only advice I can give you is to maybe suggest to Nova a time period to wait, and see how things are going. During this time period she could, if she wanted to, make a list of reasons she has wanted to be with Nina, and reasons why she now wants to leave her. If Nova thinks things through...
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