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@MonoVCPHG... Impasse is a very accurate word, but at least we do have an open dialouge, so that helps. I have asked Him how he would feel about things if they were reversed, and as always, there is absolutely no way whatsoever that He can imagine shareing me with anyone. I am the mono one...

This helps @Vampirescammy Honestly we do have somewhat seperate rules for poly vs. bdsm. And we are an old school, more traditional bdsm couple by the way. By that I mean we aren't frequenting the area play parties and scening on a regular. It seems we have reached a place of comfortable...

to Vampiresscammy ....We have talked and continue to talk about all this so that in itself I know is a good thing. I have met her, and honestly she is a nice person. That doesn't mean I want to change my life to accomodate her or any other woman, however. He states that He is not moving fast...

yes we talk... I apoligize for making it sound like He and I do not communicate. Yes we do talk in depth about how I feel about all this. And yes Him letting go of his poly desires is something that he painfully considers. My issue is that I know how deeply he wants that and I fear that He will...

...I do get what you mean. I cannot imagine a life without him.

Thanks Thanks for that. Others have actually said the same to me, but it's usually accompanied by, "do whats best for yourself and get out of a situation that is making you unhappy." I know that's not what YOU said, however. Bottom line is that I am not happy, but I am most definently in love...

Hello everyone, I come here looking for answers to all kinds of deep issues related to the mono poly relationship I am in. My first concern is that I seem to read more about poly being about having another "sexual" partner. For my Man, it's about having someone else to be in love...