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The search continues Here's an update. Ben and I took my ex-girlfriend, who is still a really good friend of mine, to a concert, and when we got there, they had the minors blocked off from the 21 and over, by a gate. I looked at Ben and was honest, saying, "I'm upset, humiliated, and I want to...

Yay! It sounds like I've got lots of online dating ideas. Now to move on to real life. I wanna know how some face-to-face encounters have gone. What's worked for you guys? How do you approach someone and then later tell them to meet your girlfriend? Story time! :D Ben works at a bar. A girl...

I agree to disagree. I can't say much more. I've typed literally about 20 explanations trying to be as reasonable, and I can't. I feel this way and always have.

True. I guess that does make sense. In our opinions, we feel like we need variety. So that is in our nature. Other people might be different. For instance, my mother feels she is completely monogamous and that sleeping with someone else outside of her monogamous relationship would be bad news.

I think it is a choice. I could certainly live my life in a monogamous relationship with my current boyfriend, but I'm bisexual and I have needs that he knows he will never be able to fulfill. Also, as a human male, he needs variety, naturally. Therefore, this is a lifestyle that we have chosen...

I'm doing Polymatchmaker.com and AFF.com for now, until later. I don't have faith in online dating, but I do feel as though I get some kind of communication, some flirting and whatnot.

Yay! more crazy people to join us! I'm still looking for my third. We want a triad uber bad. So have you thought of looking for your secondary or have anyone in mind?

We are dying to join a community, but a lot of them seem to be on the defense. We're from an incredibly small area and it's actually...really really frowned upon. Because when people hear polyamory, their first thought is scary polygamy! Well at least my mother thinks that. Anywho... that's...

Oh and another thing, with our AFF account, we get too many swingers, masturbating men asking just to sleep with me, or "swappers." We have it posted on our profile that we're interested in a polyamorous lifestyle and it seems no one cares to read it. We have no x-rated images on there, except...

Yay! Okay, so we do have an AdultFriendFinder account, but it's hell trying to find someone local. We find people we could fall in love with in a heartbeat, but they live halfway across the world. Did you have to travel or something?

We are a couple, 19F and 28M, looking for a girlfriend. We have no clue where to look! As much as we'd like to simply pick up women in a bar, I (the 19 year old) am not allowed in bars, nor do I really like to drink. My first question is: where have other people looked for and found...

I read "The Threesome Handbook" which is not necessarily on just polyamory, but a fantastic book, in my opinion, for beginners who are interested and would like to know what else is out there. The author put a lot of research in. The book has a down-to-earth tone. In other words, she doesn't use...