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I use the word in the most non-judgmental and value-neutral way possible. If anything, the reason I use the word is because "nymphos" are sexual fantasies of mine. ... Maybe it`s not so value-neutral after all. :p I understand the word is charged with meaning and probably inaccurate in...

Two things resonate with me about the OP. A) The fact that Margot might be a "nymphomaniac." I don't know about your experience, but meeting a woman with a high sex drive and open to non-monogamy is sooooooooo hot to me, because it's very rare for me to meet anyone like that. So, it's almost...

I have never been to a poly gathering, unfortunately. But, if I were to guess, I`d say most poly folks are middle-aged. If finding a poly person is almost impossible to begin with, finding a young one seems like it would be that much more difficult! :D

I think jealousy is a good thing. It means I have feelings for someone. The point, to me, is not to feel it less, but more. Feeling jealous is different from acting controlling, IMO. There are many things you can do with the feeling, I believe. I could use it to communicate more plentifully...

By what you say, it sounds like she thinks she is the prize in the relationship for being a woman: "A lot of men don`t even have that." I would do like you did --- pack and go. Best wishes.

I used to shave completely. Then I got annoying bumps (and, a herpes scare at that), and now I just trim the pelvic area, but shave my ass. :D I also shave my chest and head and facial hair. Everything looks and feels better that way, IMO. And, no itching. ;)

I`ll say it right here. And, having read the link you posted, Natja was making a similar point in your thread in that forum. I do think prostitution is the outcome of social monogamy. Social monogamy requires that sex outside of marriage be had hidden from your partner. And, that is one of the...

I haven`t read the whole survey/post yet. But, I am available to be interviewed if you wish. I have been a long term john, in two different countries, and I have had full-blown (non-pay) relationships with about 4 sex workers, and about 20 times as much for pay. I have recently felt unrequited...

Ok, from the above, it does sound like she lead you on.

So cool, spirit92. Hope to see you posting. :D

At first blush, I thought bi-monogamy is just monogamy, but with either sex. In other words, if I meet a man, I will just be with that man (no other men or women). If I meet a woman, I`ll just be with that woman (no other women or men). I thought it was a reaction to the idea that all...

This. IMO, there can only be any cheating to speak of after the boundaries conversation and when those are broken w/o consent. Everything else just sounds like an undisclosed, one-sided expectation. If someone wants exclusivity or expects me to be single during our first encounter, then I...

Thank you, so much, Imaginary. :)

I am a feely unicorn, and I wish to communicate and share experiences with fellow poly folk. :D Thank you!