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I made it very clear that if this is more than just sex and is more relationship like what she and i have, I dont want any part of it and she is more than free to leave this relationship and move out. At this point I am paying all the bills and rent and Im a student with no money so, in my...

I think i must have read about 20 sites on boundaries, and 75% of the ones that I mention in my post are ones pretty much everyone has. Some of the others are surrounding the fact that most of what i read about open relationships is that I should KNOW the other person, while she is secretive...

km34: thanks for your reply She so stubborn and difficult to talk to sometimes. Always so private and irritable (not just me, she acts the same with family or friends) so her reaction is always just like "you just want to keep tabs on me to feel like youre in control" Yeah I guess your right...

thanks for boundaries response i did reply to you on there

I appreciate that, I can now maybe understand her perspective a little now and maybe can back off this a little and possible down the road she/we can revisit I am wondering though, she didnt seem very receptive about me meeting this person, along with the fact that she hasnt told him she is in...

Again, appreciate the info. We only had the one conversation so far and it was somewhat lengthy. I explained to her what I need right now is "honesty, trust, patience, and openness". By patience I explained that there might be repetitive conversation at first about things. She feels as...

AutumnalTone Your responses to me feel very one-sided. I entered this relationship monogamously and she knew she wanted an open-relationship but didn't tell me. I only found out because she cheated on me with someone. That to me is unacceptable. However, I am willing to try this to make...

She is very much against the feeling of being "controlled" I need a really good strategy to figure out how to ask for that. When you meet the person, what is that interaction suppose to be? I mean I dont think i want to hang out with them or get personal with them but making sure he knows Im...

Thank you for quick response

Boundaries / Rules to Open Relationship What are some of the rules that everyone has with their relationships. Since I already received one negative response, I want to make it clear - these are ALL rules that I have found online at MULTIPLE different "open-relationship" sites that describe...

I would appreciate private messages to have conversation about this, hopefully someone has similar experience since i know this is intro forum. I have with my girlfriend for 1-1/2 years now. This has been a monogamous relationship. She moved in with me after about 6 months (yes fast). We are...

I hope it is okay that I PM you for more advice theMike

I feel like she might be stringing me along too, and that is my biggest concern. I don't know how to test what we have between us.

Thanks all for the responses

Im not sure I understand what you mean? We are not swinger and she says she needs open relationship but i have always been monogomous. She says she doesnt feel anything for the other person, but why does she need to see the same person ... she claims they are "friends" as well as have casual...

My girlfriend wants an open relationship and what I read online it sounds like that typically is just a one night stand. But she wants to see the same person over and again. She says she made clear to him she doesnt want relationship and she tells me she loves only me, but Im concerned. It...

My girlfriend brought out that she wants open relationship. And she says she loves me and this bring us closer and she says the other people dont mean anything to her. Today she was texting someone and it just really bothered me because i dont know what they are talking about. She is...