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  1. openbj

    What are the best things to figure out?

    I do believe that I now define myself as poly-curious (which is shock even to me). J is most assuredly poly, but I've always thought of myself as mono until we started going down this road of poly with J. I've been going through a lot of self discovery and I just don't know that I'm mono as I...
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    No Machine Required Ice Cream

    In retaliation of all the heat that we've been having here in the USA, I figured I'd share a nice, quick ice cream recipe for you to all enjoy. This is the recipe for Lemon Icebox Pie ice-cream: 2 cups cold heavy whipping cream 1 can sweetened condensed milk 1 teaspoon lemon extract 3...
  3. openbj

    This is so weird but also exciting lol

    Well, in the mean time of us finding a girlfriend for J, he would really like for me to step outside of my comfort zone and try either a spouse swap with a couple or a threesome (me with him and another guy or him with me and another girl) or me with another guy and him watching or him with...
  4. openbj

    How long have you been poly?

    I've noticed that there is a huge range of longevity here in the forums. So I'm wondering, how long have each of you been poly or in a poly relationship?
  5. openbj

    UPDATE: for those following "Will you be my husband's girlfriend"

    Last night brought about a whole shrew of gear changes!!! All for the good. I was chatting with a friend of ours (female). We were just chatting, nothing serious, just enjoying visiting with one another and catching up. Well, things just took a natural direction towards poly talk. I opened up...
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    Will you be my husband's girlfriend??

    Okay, so how on earth do you even approach someone about being your husband's girlfriend? The person we want, Ariel, has been a friend for two years now. She and my husband Eric had an affair last year. They really do love each other. But I ruined it for all of us at the time. I didn't even...
  7. openbj

    I am an admitted jealous freak!!

    We have been open since January. I have to admit, I haven't exactly made it easy on him to go out and fool around. I'm okay with it-- I just want him to check in with me and let me know that I'm still his number 1, even though he's out with somebody else. Not fair, I know. I just have really bad...
  8. openbj

    Acronyms

    Is there a thread with all of the acronyms and what they stand for on this forum? I looked, but couldn't find anything quickly. Being new to poly, I'm not sure what everything stands for.
  9. openbj

    Looking into poly

    I am looking into going poly with my husband, Eric. I'm more mono and he's more poly. We are both Christians. Through the studies I've done lately and the questions that Eric and I have produced to ourselves over the years, I have come to the conclusion that it is not a sin for him to be poly...
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