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I knew it couldn't be that easy... That was the understatement of the century. So....mom had a couple of days to stew on it and has decided she needs to call Pinky's mom and talk with her about it. I thought it would be nice for us all to go to lunch, but she won't have that. She wants to...

Agreed! Stick to your guns. You have every right to meet the new person in Bea's life. IMHO, her refusal to meet you is a backhanded way of being in charge of the situation. What is she afraid of? Meet at a Starbucks for 10 minutes. That way, you are not stuck waiting for a meal you ordered...

I did it! Mom is checked off the list of "needs to know." Over lunch, I spilled it. She took it very well. All I really said was...you know my friend, Pinky? Well, Poppa and I both like her a lot." Mom: What? Me: We both REALLY like her. Mom: Are you talking about a threesome or something...

LOL - It's ALL for Love, right? :)

I got this link from Redpepper. It's been very helpful for me. http://www.xeromag.com/practicaljealousy.pdf

It sounds like Bea is really trying to take your feelings into consideration. That is a good thing! I think you guys will be ok if you continue to communicate openly. :) Best of luck.

I don't think there is ever a way to break up with someone without hurt feelings. It is the nature of the beast. Bea can do her best to soften the blow, but I guarantee feelings will be hurt. I think your wish to have a fluid-bond with Bea only is completely fair. Since the sex isn't so great...

Ruin which relationship? Yours and Bea's? NO. Bea's and Carrie's? So what? Carrie doesn't even want to meet you. She already thinks you are manipulating her? Didn't she know you were in the picture when she signed up for this? Sorry to sound negative, but you have to worry about you and stop...

Oh lordy! If I know my Mom. That will not be even CLOSE to enough information! But really, I agree. I don't really want to get into the details about who sleeps with whom, but I really think it's an important part of the story.

Be Strong Hi babygirl. I know you feel crazy right now, because I have been there. Not EXACTLY there....but close. I'm married and my hubby and I have recently fallen for Pinky. Although our situation is different from yours, because I also have a relationship with Pinky, I totally understand...

Summer

Just added a couple of new pics of the family :)

Checking In :) Wow! I can't believe it's been almost three months since my last postings. So much has happened, I don't even know where to begin. We have had ups and downs lately. Including a short stretch with LOTS of downs, but WE MADE IT! Our bond grows stronger each and every day. I...

This one kills me! Why should we all sneak and lie and such when it is not necessary? Lying is bad. My momma taught me that!

:) Mr. FarFrom Right - this brought tears to my eyes. I can tell that you really have thought about me and my feelings here, and that touches me. Thanks so much. I'm ready to give it a shot! :) HA! I love this!!! Although he is way too cool right now to give us credit for being cutting edge. LOL

Thanks for that link, RfromRMC! I can use all the tips I can get.

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Secure! Yay! I feel like I passed! LOL

Totally on the same page. We weren't out looking for this. It just found us. :)

Trust me, we have the same thoughts. We all agree that there are no absolutes in life. As with any "average" relationship, you never know if it will work out in the end. I TOTALLY understand. :) That's why we are all here. It's nice to know there are others going through and loving it!