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By request...lol I got home from work on Friday and had a talk with my son. I started out by telling him that I was sorry he overheard and assured him that I was fully aware of what was going on. There is no need for him to think that Hubby is doing something that I don't approve of. I also let...

Oh, he is so sweet! No wonder you love him :)

Hi Polynewbie, I am the wife in a situation similar to yours. My husband and I are in the process of integrating our new girlfriend into our lives. We've only been in this poly-fi relationship since the beginning of March, so it's really new to us also. This is our first go at this kind of a...

Thank you I have just finished reading your blog from beginning to end. I will echo previous comments....thank you so much for sharing. It really helps so much to know there are others working thru similar issues. :) Best of luck to you and Indigo and Mr. A!!!! <3

thanks, Carma...That means so much right now. :)

S - is now on the boards, her screen name is Pinky...so let's call her that :) Yup. Pinky and hubby are back together. She was broke it off with him, but that's not what makes us all happy. We have decided to stick it out - there's just something so special about this whole situation - it's...

Uh-oh Still hanging in there...some changes again. We are all not happy unless everyone is together. So, we're all back in it. I feel like a moron sometimes- with all this going back and forth. Isn't the definition of Insanity - repeating the same actions while expecting different results...

Love this! I've stolen this and saved it to reference when I start feeling crazy. <3 Thank you so much for sharing :)

work to do... Woah, what a week. :) We have all three been talking, crying, talking, laughing, talking some more. @nycindie - For now, we have decided to do just that! yay! Girlfriend - S - and I will continue. She and Hubby will not have "alone time" for a while. We can all be together...

ditto Hi Isaac, I think you're normal. I also think you're just like me. I've just recently jumped into a situation that made me so jealous I couldn't see straight. I really snuck up on me and I felt like I was losing my mind. From what I've read on this forum, it's just something I/we have to...

me too! Hi esarati, I don't have much to add except that I'm dealing with the same jealousy issues. My situation is a little different, but that ugly green monster does have the power to make anyone feel crazy. Work through it. Keep posting here. These guys are great! Best of luck. Maybe we...

Hi Red, Just wanted to thank you for everything! You have been such a help in my journey to understanding myself and my path. You are appreciated!!! :)

great suggestion! I will get working on this list. This is just my own armchair psych version - nothing a "professional" has told me, but I've seen enough Oprah episodes to figure it out, lol. My parents were divorced when I was one. My mother and I moved across the country. I spent some time...

I have seen this happen. I don't want to be that person. :( Do you have any suggestions as to where I can look? It really pisses me off that I do not have control over this. I just felt SO out of control and like my whole world was threatened...that all I thought I could do was end it. It's...

Update To make a long story short...I have some unresolved jealousy/abandonment issues. The situation between the three of this really brought up all these terrible feelings for me. I wish more than anything that I could handle the thoughts of my husband having romantic love for someone other...

Update Hi all! Just wanted to give you all an update. I have come to the decision that I can't handle my husband having a girlfriend. My brain understands that he will not leave me for her, but my heart and guts just can't handle it. After a long day, we have all three come to an agreement to...

Clarification We are all good with the one-penis policy. When gf finds a new boyfriend, it will most likely be over. I guess I should have added that rule...NO BABIES. We are taking precautions. I saw that somewhere on a forum. I thought it made sense. We all spend the night together when we...

Answers! We have all three been friends for about 3 months. I have (within the last 10 years) identified myself as bisexual. My husband has always been OK with that, but he has never been involved. I've not ever identified myself as poly until now. There are no other relationships going on...

Hi all, I need some advice. I am new to this lifestyle and have recently started a relationship involving my husband and my girlfriend. It's only been going on about 4 weeks, and was all great in the beginning. Now my hubby and gf have started arguing all the time. She's mad at him, or he's...