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    Relationship Anarchy

    It's been awhile since I've inhabited the forum. I've been sorting myself out, so to speak. Quick synopsis: I was part of a very short-term triad with a couple (Philosopher ["Bryce"] and his now ex-wife "Eden") turned vee, which quickly dissolved (I won't bore you with the details.) A year...
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    Effect of divorce

    Brief backstory: In 2011, I joined a couple that seemed tight, but ultimately was not. In all fairness, they did not understand the significance of their own issues. The wife, Eden, was a walking, talking apparition of cognitive distortions. She presented well on the surface, put on a good face...
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    Need Your Insight

    Brief back story: 2 1/2 years ago, I joined a married couple. My initial relationship was with the wife, Eden. She and I had known each other since we were children. Her husband Bryce and I quickly fell for each other. All was good until Eden did a 180 (after promoting that we all have our own...
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    Rather anti-climatic/coming out

    I have been involved in two triads. The first was wildly successful, coming to an end only after death; the other failed due to the low emotional IQ of one of the parties. I was so devastated after that one ended, that while I didn't flaunt it, for anyone who wanted to know who I was, I told...
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    Re-introduction

    I posted here for awhile 1-2 years ago. My story: I spent over two decades in a hinged (FMF) triad, under the same roof, that only ended when the hinge passed away. Like any relationship, it had its ups and downs. In our case, those seemed due to ordinary causes, not caused by the triad...
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    Trying to Wrap my Head Around This: Devolving Triad

    Backstory: I am 2.5 months out of a vee/triad with a MF couple. The woman, Eden, was a childhood friend (although we'd been in and out of touch through our adult years). Our triad lasted about 10 months. It started devolving about 2 months in, due to Eden's massive insecurity and self-esteem...
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    I need some perspective (f'ed-up triad)

    I'm sorry this is likely to be rather lengthy. Back story: I was part of a long term MFF triad that only ended upon the death of our male spouse, Noah. Daphne and I are still in close contact, but felt like we needed to explore the world on our own after his death. I reunited with a childhood...
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    Emotional Triad

    I am now the second (a female) in what I would define as an emotional triad with a married hetero couple. We began as a full triad, but it has not worked thus far. Back story: Our triad did not come about because any of us were seeking the lifestyle. I'm a long-time friend of the wife. She is...
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