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    Help! I'm struggling as my mono marriage of 20 years is turning poly

    Moving in and moving forward I agree that moving in is a major step in any relationship, and with poly relationships, everything is that much more complicated ('cause there's more people involved). I know that the three of us have really only cleared the first hurdle in our joint relationship...
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    Help! I'm struggling as my mono marriage of 20 years is turning poly

    The relationship is progressing well It's been about a month now since my adventures into polyamory began. Prior to that, I'd never even heard of the word polyamory, let alone known anything about it. Bree and I were a straight vanilla mono couple. At least, we thought we were. Now we're a poly...
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    Help! I'm struggling as my mono marriage of 20 years is turning poly

    Rules of dating Bree says that she would be very happy for me to have an OSO, but she's freaked out about the DATING process. In her heart of hearts, she wants me to find my OSO by accident (the same way she found hers), as a true-love-at-first-sight-unavoidable-sparks flying everywhere kind of...
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    Help! I'm struggling as my mono marriage of 20 years is turning poly

    Progress report Thank you so much for all the kind words and support. It's all been extremely helpful! I've been following up on all the links, references, papers... reading a lot on the subject, including the book Opening Up (since I can get it in Kindle format and read it without others...
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    Help! I'm struggling as my mono marriage of 20 years is turning poly

    My wife Bree and I have been happily married for almost 20 years. We've been best friends (as well as lovers) since the day we met. We have two kids. Just over a week ago, I found out that she is bisexual. (She only realized this herself about 7 months ago.) She fell in love with another woman...
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    Mono in a poly relationship

    My wife and I have been happily married for almost 20 years, we have two kids, and we've been best friends (as well as lovers) since the day we met. Just recently, I found out that she's bi (she only realized this herself about 7 months ago), that she fell in love with another woman, that she...
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