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Rules of Engagement game changers Ok it's inevitable that change occur in relationships. Our Vee has changed slowly over time. Each new negotiation makes for new experience and perfection of what works for us. What I want to know is, what boundaries or "rules" have changed for you over time...

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Checking in LR I hope you feel better soon. We are good here. Going to spend my first negotiated wife week away on the 20th. I will be spending a week with Prof for wifery rather than vacation. I usually commit wifery for Mad Science.

My FOC gomugirl: female, bi Mad Science: male, omni Prof: male, hetero

oh Finch I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. I wish I had something truly useful to say to you on this. Just remember you can be supportive without having to fix the situation and you can take care of your needs without guilt. I find that when I take care of my needs I can be...

To Nina Welcome to the forum. There are a lot of different experiences here and a lot of information. I can only share mine with you but if you are interested PM me. I am happy to meet new friends. Good luck on your journey in expanded loving experiments.

Glad it's working out for you guys. I am watching closely as my little family is in the preliminary stages for our own cohab situation. Your intel is most welcome. :)

Strawberry Switchblade, Love the name by the way. Remember that these people who are talking crap are making assumptions on little or no information. What they are seeing scares the crap out of them and they are concerned for the health and safety of their friend. I don't really see how it...

J and I are going to Dixie Cafe with his family at some undisclosed time. R has expressed a desire to meet my siblings (my parents are deceased) and so we will be going together for the first time to my baby sister's to eat with my family. After which R will go eat dinner with his family. J and...

"But I am not sure if it is okay to discuss my feelings about it because I know he is hurting too, he was married to her for 12 years!"-Brunetteangel103 Resolution in a situation comes more smoothly when a person feels they aren't alone in their situation. Perhaps you can relate to each other...

That makes me feel all gooey. I am glad you are feeling better about this. Danny, Enjoy and thanks for the update. (((hugz)))

Ella

Ray, I am sorry to hear you are suffering. I know this limbo pattern is tough but such intense feelings can consume your self esteem and ideas about the world. You are intelligent and filled with insight beyond your experience and you deserve to be dealt with openly and honestly and to be loved...

Dead

Yul, I am sorry you are hurting and frustrated. Hang in there. We had two epic fails before we got where we are now. We did lots of research, kept our current relationship stable by being loving and communicative and at some point we were healed enough to try again with someone new. There is...

agent

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I am sorry to hear you feel crappy. I hope you get feeling better soon.

Hey Magdlyn it may not be that way at all. He may really have had some stuff come up unexpectedly. Life happens. It may not be personal to you or your relationship give it a little time before you dump the relationship completely. I find that I save myself much squirrel caging if I take the my...

My experience I had the same problem of not wanting my hubby to have sex with someone we were friends with. It really bothered me. However, I knew the problem was with me. I wanted them to enjoy their time, and express their feelings fully, and experience what they had to. I felt compersion...