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    Check out my super sweet pumpkins!

    Cool pumpkins Those are cool. Well done. Happy Halloween.
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    My favorite strange thing to do

    Strange thing to do I dump out all my crayons and organize them by color. I always feel better knowing that some part of my world makes sense.
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    Word Association Game!

    shampoo
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    Word Association Game!

    Spouse
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    Movies that would have been better with a poly ending.

    Poly bomb The Duchess. It really wanted to be poly. It just wasn't equal and the communication sucked.
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    Long distance love

    Ldr I'm still new to driving so for me a 6 hour round trip, which is what it is to R, is too long in my crappy car every week. Also anything that requires a hotel stay or plane tickets. It's more the expense and safety thing. If I had a good car and more money I would definitely make a trip at...
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    The public side of things

    Coming out We sort of have and sort of haven't come out. J's parents know and seem ok with it as long as R and I don't PDA in front of them. Cool. My sisters know I am into new adventures in relating so they don't care but it wasn't a big deal. R's parents don't know. He feels like his mom...
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    Bit of a problem with one of my partner's lovers

    Problem with partner's lovers My ex husband was sleeping with my girlfriend and things were tense. She wanted me to be there for her and share all about her time with my ex. I wanted him back in loving relationship with me and he wanted her without me in the picture so it was convoluted. It did...
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    mono-poly spectrum?

    poly scale I'd say I am a 4 I prefer poly. I have been in a mono relationship where I was faithful but cheated on. I tried to open it to save the marriage because of children but he preferred dishonesty. Marriage two was mono and faithful but once we divorced we were more poly. He slept with my...
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    Hope your Birthday is a good one.

    Hope your Birthday is a good one.
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    Happy Birthday. Feeling friendly today.

    Happy Birthday. Feeling friendly today.
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    Movies that would have been better with a poly ending.

    polybomb movies Age of Innocence. He stayed with his wife and children, and loved them in his own way. But if his wife and society of the time had allowed for poly, it would have been less heartbreaking to watch unrequited love. I have a pirate and a giant, am taking applications for a Spanish...
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    Needs ideas

    Needs Ideas Thanks, that is a good suggestion I will bring it up at our next meeting and see how the guys feel about it.
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    Fun quiz

    Wanna play? # First thing you wash in the shower? breasts # What color is your favorite hoodie? gray # Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? oh yeah # How are you feeling RIGHT now? good # Tell me about the last dream you remember having? I was looking for my workbook # What are you...
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    Religious survey

    My spice are both some stripe of pagan. I just don't know about myself personally. I guess I fall under that I have christian and agnostic parents so that's my influence. I sort of take the bits I am comfortable with and leave the rest. My personal concept of god isn't so worried about how I...
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    Touch

    Glad I read this. Thanks for bringing it up. My natural level of affection when both spice are around seems ok I am pretty reserved in mixed company anyway but alone with them I am very cuddly to each. Neither of my "boys" have brought it up but maybe now i will to see what they think.
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    My name comes from my involvement in a twelve step program GOMU means god of my understanding. I believe in tolerance pretty much across the board. We all have different needs so why not allow for personal understanding of god?
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    Personal Summaries

    I am gomugirl from Arkansas. I am 41 and kink toward BDSM (though not currently practicing I have been both bottom and top) and am bi. I am currently in relationship with two mono men one for 14 years and one for 8. I live with #1 and we are legally married. #2 lives in another town (3 hours...
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    Needs ideas

    I am in a relationship with a primary partner (male) to whom I am legally married (11 years) we have an excellent honest and open relationship. I also have a relationship with another male (for 8 years) who lives in another part of the state. The three hour drive prevents frequent travel back...
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