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Ivy, I'm sorry to hear that, and kinda surprised. You're a beautiful woman, and the interaction you mentioned really seemed like she was into you in some way. Maybe she's in denial, and worries that what she's feeling is threatening her marriage. I'm just as curious about how dating is so...

Yeaaah, you DEFINITELY need a good lover. I know the thought scares you, but what specifically about it scares you? What's the root of that fear?

Ok, so I had a date coming up that I mentioned last time. Let's start with that. I met with M, a local poly girl. She's seeing several other people, which I'm of course okay with. We had sushi, beers, and many good laughs. We get along great. A brief make-out session afterwards, but she had to...

I don't condone going after minors, not at all... But that was a secondary development - initially he got busted sending a pic to a college student, definitely not a minor. Also, I do recall reading that the girl's parents said that he hadn't sent her anything really explicit, and the feeling I...

Man, now you guys are making me feel spoiled... :cool:

LOL - I meant, with someone other than the SO... not necessarily the SO and someone else together.

Oh, when you put it that way... alter the living situation, or be patient and masturbate more. Lots of porn out there. :p

This person is feeling alienated from their SO, and really only has enjoyable sex when the other person/people are involved? That doesn't sound like a healthy foundation for a sustainable poly dynamic.

I'm not sure humans have the capacity to easily accept the notion of a "limited sex life", especially when surrounded by others who are being frequently satisfied, without severe psychological (and probably even hormonal) damage. The first time I was with another woman after I married my wife...

Oh, it's being blown WAY out of proportion. He hasn't even had an affair. And yes, sending racy photos of yourself on the internet if you're well known is a totally moronic idea. Even still, why do we give a crap?

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/12/nyregion/pelosi-calls-on-weiner-to-resign.html?hp That's a pretty good overview so far. The whole thing started when he accidentally posted a pic of him in his underwear on Twitter instead of sending it as a private message to a girl. He deleted it...

Ok, it's all over the news, we've all heard about it, and while it's really nothing new (seems every-other month theres some new new scandal), I'm very curious to hear your takes on it, as opposed to the vitriolic reactionary and judgmental responses issued in the mainstream media. For me, I...

Thank you! Nice.... everything. :cool: LOL! Quod Erat Demonstrandum, I suppose...

Wow, cockblocked on the INTERNET! :eek: ;)

Uh, seems pretty obvious to me. Then again, I wasn't there. Still, seems an odd "random unplanned comment" for a bi-woman to make under the influence, in the car with another beautiful woman... Just sayin'. DEFINITELY wouldn't say she's not interested in bi women. If she's got a history of...

You can ask deflecting questions all day long, or refuse to discuss your personal life with acquaintances and colleagues, but your friends and family will eventually get to the point of, "Wait, you don't actually believe this, do you? Does that mean you're non-monogamous???", and you simply...

Yes. I mean, I know I could cite the anthropological reasons, but I suspect I would still get questions regarding my own sexuality, which I am loath to answer in a public manner. To certain friends, in private, I am absolutely comfortable discussing it.

I definitely am with those encouraging you to do some things just for you. She has her loves, you need yours too, whether that's another woman, or an entirely engrossing hobby, either way, I think you should look for some things just for you. Maybe a night off away from her, away from the...

Because people are going to ask. Declining to discuss it is tantamount to admission of guilt (despite what the 5th amendment may say), and I absolutely despise lying.

This thread is now useless without pics. ;) I'm beginning to like this guy! You'll get there, I know it! We're all rooting for you. ...and I'm rooting EXTRA hard (hehe, double-entendre) because we were just talking about masturbation. :D On your recent good news (the convo with Heather)...