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Hey Mags, thanks so much for the reply and the insight. For the most part you're pretty right-on. As for everything going on, my job is inconsistent, at best. I'll work one week and not the next, then maybe a day or two the week after. I spend the vast majority of my time in SD with my family...

I've had the same experience on both ends - better sex because of her lover, and better sex because of mine. Now if we EACH had a lover at the same time, I can only imagine.... :cool: Congratulations, and enjoy!

Hi GP, I really hope the meeting goes well, and I'm looking forward to reading about it. What you've gone through and are still experiencing to a certain extent really reminds me of what my wife is currently going through. I may point her in the direction of your threads to see how you dealt...

I'm rooting for you three. I really hope it works. I wish I had more practical advice to give you other than "hang in there and have lots of sex", but that's pretty much the only thing I have to say. I hope you can make it work, because it'll definitely give me some hope. :eek:

G is having a tougher time with this than I thought. She made an appointment to talk to a therapist, but now she's saying she's not sure if she wants to go. We just took a trip together to see her family for Mother's Day, and it was really a fun trip. We had a good time together, went out...

I'm breaking out the popcorn... this is an incredible story! I cannot fathom why Ella wouldn't want you and Ben to be involved! What could be better than two people you love loving each other too??? The notion that she's afraid you two would forget all about her is about the only plausible...

I stayed with G to help her deal with her emotions and reactions, but more a symbol of how much she means to me. I felt like she needed me to show her that she's number one and special to me above anyone else, even though she didn't say it, and she was glad I stayed. The next day, she said I...

I stayed, and I felt torn about it. Still do. I feel that L's emotional need of me in this moment was greater, but I chose to stay with G because she needed me as well, but for reasons stemming from ego. I chose G's ego over L's heart, and it was hard to do. I just hope I haven't broken it. I...

I swear, my life is a pendulum. Now it seems G is saying that it makes more sense for me to go up now, when she needs me, because we have stuff to deal with later this week here. Trying to please her is making me crazy. Edit: Now she says she wants me to go so she can process. Kinda feels...

G is just getting worse and worse. :( Now she's saying things like, "If you really loved me, why would you do this to me?" I hope so too. She and I think it was the same person or group of people who did it, because they had recognized her initially when she was in the bar with her friends...

Just got off the phone with L. She's in the hospital. Apparently a little while after she got off the phone with me, she started feeling a lot worse and very nauseated, so she called another friend who lives closer. When he showed up, he took her to the hospital, where they pumped her stomach...

G is still having a hard time with this. I'm continuing to give her love and support, but I'm trying not to "go the extra mile" too much to show her I love her, because I'm afraid of setting an unsustainable precedent, and when the extra effort eventually tapers off, as it's bound to, she'll be...

Apparently she did ask that question out of insecurity. G is getting better about dealing with it, and I think she understands that L gives me something that G cannot, nor would I want her to. Lately, L has been going through some pretty deep and shockingly difficult spiritual things. (G and I...

I'm not afraid to tell you that it is indeed yummy.

About the only reason I extrapolated beyond "yup" with my response is because I've given her the "yup" answer before regarding L's prettiness. Besides, with G, it's not so much that she needs me to be more careful how I say things, so much as she wants to see me making an effort to be sensitive...

I've heard this numerous times, but none of the women I was with as a teenager started lactation, despite near constant stimulation. :rolleyes:

It's not as though I believe women need to be treated with kid gloves. This is more about sensitivity to a partner who is currently feeling insecure. And as for Monica Bellucci, she's an Italian model and actress, notably from the second Matrix movie, where she played Persephone, and from...

Today, I did something stupid. I admit it freely. To be fair, I was caught off-guard, and I think it was done deliberately. We hit the drive-thru (not a usual thing, but we needed a snack in a pinch) and while I was paying the lady, taking the food, and trying to unwrap a straw, G hit me with...

A-men, brother. Those three words exit my lips probably 30 times a day. My life is filled with love, and I wouldn't have it any other way, complicated though it may be.

Tonight, G and I went out wine and beer tasting at a local place. We didn't say a word about our current situation, and instead just worked on having fun and loving/enjoying each other, which was a total success. We found several incredible finds - an Italian wine that was delicious, a...