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You COULD point out that "biblically" poly was accepted. ;)

So cindie, you're saying that, in a huge metropolis such as Tampa, I should have hundreds of women who are a match for me? Well, sadly this simply is not true. Sometimes, I wish I were unscrupulis enough to actually post some of the pictures of the women who are "matches" in my area. Oddly...

I see what you're trying to do there. ;) But because I play games too, I'll entertain. When I started seeing my wife, she weighed less than she does now. Then, she had our daughter....and gained weight with that. She never lost the weight. Not much...Only about 20 lbs. Try to get this...

And yet, no-one can STILL meet my challenge. All every one seems to be able to do, is shift blame. Come on, lets compare apples to apples here. The only difference, is women, to men, and locations. So, you girls are saying that you will date ANYONE? No matter WHAT the physical attraction (or...

Which is why I make sure to keep my pictures very current and when I meet the person in real life, if they don't match their pictures, then they have basically lied to me already, and the "relationship" is dead before it ever started. ;)

No, I won't. A woman who is 6' and 200 lbs, looks healthy. (even though "large" or "big boned") They also have a decent amount of meat on their bones. My own wife is 220 and only 5'10". She holds it quite well, and looks VERY sexy. So the 200 lbs is just a figure, and is not, by any means, hard...

First, I am attracted to that which I am attracted to. Nothing can change that. My wife has cut her hair shorter (not a boy cut mind you, but shorter) and I didn't like it, but it grows out. I expressed my displeasure, and I was very upset over it. She hasn't done it since because of how much it...

No-one is taking me up on my challenge? Bummer. I am not so uncooth as to actually post some of the really....ahem...unattractive...matches in my area. In my area (within a 50 mile radius) there are 3 pages or less. How many people per page? 10. So, less than 30 matches to my own criteria...

Don't take that as a totally bad thing. Maybe what you said you would never turn into, is actually a good thing....That you were rebelling against before. ;)

Like I said Karma, the pain fades....It will always hurt, but the pain will dull after a while. Help your friend. She was nice enough to help you...right? So repay the favor. You may well be jumping in....even though you don't realize it. ;) Good luck man. Warm thoughts your way. Regards

I have to agree with Cindie. Who cares what the label is for what you have? Is it working for everyone involved? It certainly SOUNDS like it is. So...Just sit back and enjoy it. Now, for the no sex thing....Well...I would say this: Never say never. ;) Be openminded, and things may happen...

Entirely possible cindie. Entirely possible. Every time I think about a woman other than my wife, and actually contacting them, I hear that little phrase in my head that says "nice guys finish last".....but I'm always trying to be nice and not offend. LOL Maybe I should throw caution to the...

Magdlyn, I'll send you a link to my OKC profile in a while. I've had it turned off/on pause for the last month or so. The reason? I got frustrated with it, and with "poly". I was simply.....frustrated. And didn't want to date anyone, or see anyone in any way shape or form. Work was more than...

Sourgirl, The second guy my wife would likely have responded to also. LOL The first guy, would have been an ignore for my wife. I am not so cras as to send a "hook up" message. I am, afterall, looking for more than just a casual hook up. Now, I want you to do a search on what you are looking...

Yes, me and my "always". I have yet to be messaged by a woman....for anything.....where she is the initiator. Oh well. I am not usually attracted to women who are not "feminine", so I guess I have to simply be more assertive. ;)

Interesting Mags...You got more responses in 1 week than I did in 1 month! :rolleyes: I would love for a woman to send me a message....ANY message....out of the blue. Even if it's to tell me I'm totally Fugly and ask why the hell I was on OKC. Why must men always be the aggressor, while women...

You in Vancouver? We used to live in Newcastle, Washington. (down by Seattle) We've since moved to Clearwater Florida.;)

Cindie, You ever watched the movie "Friends with Bennifits" yet? Pretty funny flick about a man and a woman who hook up, and decide to make it a regular thing, but keep it sinmply as a friends with bennifits thing, and no "love" or "commitment". They find out, after a long period, that it simply...

My wife and I have found that when we meet people, and tell them we are looking for Friends with bennifits, it works better than telling them we are "poly". For some odd reason, as soon as we tell ppl we are "poly", they get all scared and try to run the other way. They get scared of the...

I got laid! LOL