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Done! Any way you can post up the results of your analysis when the project is done?

We started with CodeIgniter but decided to just go with raw PHP on a LAMP stack, in the name of speed. Hosted on a VPS over at Rimuhosting for now. We might upgrade to Cassandra and dedicated servers if this ends up gaining traction but that's far down the road. Mobile support is absolutely...

I'm not sure if this applies to your situation, but the winter months SUCK for me. I'm always more anxious and prone to regression in the winter - I think it has to do with a decrease in sunshine. Come summertime I've got more bounce in my step. Regardless, the "failed attempts" at...

Registration: Done Hey guys - User registration is up and ready for your feedback. The way we're rolling this out is in two stages - http://beta.poly.fm for beta testing as everything is developed in stages, and then www.poly.fm for the final product. If you go to www.poly.fm now, you'll...

Hey! I went to a meetup a couple weeks ago here in VA and met some nice folks - I'd definitely recommend it. This should help: http://www.meetup.com/OPENofDMV/ I'm "Mick" on there. As for my relationship - I'm flying solo at the moment. Up until recently I was enjoying a V with two...

I think the archetype for its use is last.fm - a music streaming service. Other non-music sites have used it too - check this out: tp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/.fm I chose that domain because it's short, simple, relevant, and memorable. "polymatchmaker" or "polysocialnetwork" etc just feel...

Welcome, and congratulations on the third :)

My girlfriend's boyfriend just convinced her to try being monogamous D:

:) You should see user registration up towards the middle of this week. We can hone in on a "good enough" design in these beginning stages and then throw some serious design work at the end result. Updates to come!

TGIG - I think that's a great way to put it! Forums generally center the conversation; social networks feel a bit more fluid in nature. Thanks for the input :). nycindie - thanks for those links. I just took a run through them and got a good idea of what people are looking for (or NOT...

Vicky Cristina Barcelona :)

Oh boy, what a timely thread. I think there's a difference between women and girls, and that doesn't have to do with age. Older ladies tend to be... womanly. They radiate that sense of matured sexuality that their younger counterparts can't quite rock. The prolonged eye contact, coy smile...

Thanks for the input! I should clarify - my goal isn't to replace polyamory.com. If anything, I'm trying to complement it. Poly.fm is just another option that I'm building and I want you to know that your input is valuable, that's all. I agree - the UX on that site needs some work. The...

Splash page: hosted Okay - the splash page is up at www.poly.fm. Next task - user registration. Updates to come, feedback welcome and desired.

Hi all - After a bit of private messaging and in-person networking, I've come to the conclusion that polyamory needs something akin to what www.fetlife.com offers for kinksters. An online community - not primarily a dating site - that allows individuals, couples, triads, and so on to meet and...

ImaginaryIllusion sent me a PM - I'm just waiting for him to respond now :). Thanks guys!

Thanks for the response, peabean. I haven't ever been part of a triad, but I've definitely felt a sense of "tolerance" towards my intimate partner when she experiments with people I don't know. I'm not sure what it is. If I don't know the third person, then my energy kind of shifts from an open...

I have a question for the owner/admin of this forum - who should I speak to?

Hello :). I signed up recently as well - I think you'll find this to be a very friendly group of folks. Welcome!

For those of you who have engaged in long-term triad relationships, how much of an issue was jealousy? How did you deal with it when it surfaced, if it surfaced?