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Ha! It's been a while since I've been in a relationship with a woman and I had completely forgotten this aspect but yes, people were ALWAYS asking my gf's and I if we were sisters and we looked absolutely nothing alike. It seemed like a way to ask if we were lesbians without being so direct.

HI BlueAngel, and welcome. It will be interesting to find out what you choose to do with your invitation to join a poly relationship. Even though you don't have specific experience with this type of structure it seems you are at least open minded and that's a terrific place from which to...

Macbeth and his Lady, Remember that there is very little social modeling for these relationship structures so be gentle with yourselves as you move through your process. I am reminded again and again by my own experiences and by those of the community here just how dynamic these love...

I like the double meaning but it was the lyrical story that first caught my attention many years ago :)

My apologies for offending, I didn't mean to come across as lecturing, just sharing info learned from years as a women's health care provider. Perhaps I should have read your original post more carefully.

I recently split my FB accounts and created a new one for clients. It was making me uncomfortable to edit my posts in order not to offend my (sometimes) deeply religious clientele, besides, they just don't need to know my joys and sorrows. So for my personal FB account I will friend anyone who...

Seventh Crow...that gave me shivers, thanks. Ok I'm still catching up here but my screen name comes from the lush, colorful and redemptive story "The Rainbow Goblins" by Ul de Rico. Indigo was the leader of the goblins, sneaky creatures who lassoed rainbows and gorged themselves on their...

Ceoli, here are some thoughts: Yeast overgrowth can be caused by pH imbalance, true but the underlying pH imbalance might need to be addressed, too. Are you eating well? Lots of different types of foods and of different colors? Avoiding alcohol? Sugar? (this seems to trip people up who have...

October

Cycling. That's about it I'm afraid. 200 miles/week, 25 races a year, more laundry and recovery sleep than I care to think about. Watching bike racing, just for balance, ya know can't be too one dimensional. Settlers of Catan around a table loaded with good friends and food I've prepared...

HI there- A quick hello and some support. I've always been poly, am wired that way but it still took years to unlearn social expectations keeping me from being honest with myself, my husband and my partners. And I wasn't always honest. Moving toward to complete openness has been a process...

Talking to my kid, and a thanks Hi there- Thank you so much LovingRadiance, this was just the article I needed to read and at just the perfect time. A quick recap of who I am since I'm new-ish and don't post often...36, married 16 years to a great guy (aranaeapc), 2 kids: 12 and 8. I have a...

I'm indigos_child on okc though I generally leave my account 'disabled' these days after reaching total poly saturation. The one and only person I've met from okc is completely amazing, my N=1 for what it's worth. M

Hey all- I'm Indigo here but IndigosChild nearly everywhere else. Sometimes I'm called mom, other times I'm hon or sweetie but have yet to be called 'second' or wifey but that's really, really cute. I am in fact married and have been for 16 of my 36 years...quick math, yes, I was young. You...

Hiya- Over the past year or so I have felt constrained by my choice not to be completely out to those people closest to me; I pick and choose who knows I'm poly and who thinks I'm Pollyanna. It's been my choice but lately it had felt less than honest. Sooo...I came out. To most of my friends...