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everything seems to be easing up. spoke to boyfriend this morning. and explained that there is alot of factors that have led to emotional withdrawal and strain. But he does listens and understands and explains that now its time to move forward from it. he isnt trying to deny me my affection, he...

So far no real chance to talk to boyfriend, especially with stress from other aspects of life, yesterday we hit a rock but managed to steer away from it after the crash with just minor bumps. seems like they are both trying. Maybe its just me that is now over it after everyone took their time to...

thank you ive been distant with them both, the lack of intimacy has left a little gap between me and boyfriend i find myself very cold at times with him. im willing to hear girfriend out and left her show me she is really into me not becuase of boyfriend, hope all goes well, i just honestly need...

Yes she said this weekend wasn't about jealous she was just really tired from work and an outing we all took. That she really didnt have that conversation that weekend for me to stay just to act the same way before because she really doesn't want to lose me. There are still problems that I have...

I will so far she is just saying that she messed up in the pat but is not the case now and that she recently really wasn't trying to not be intimate she was just tired and really wasn't up for it but that she no longer feels like she once did about me and out boyfriend beig intimate alone. So...

Thank you I'm trying hard to not let it get to me but I can only handle so much if she continues this negative thinking and jealousy and this so called getting used to this thing still attitude then idk because it feels like she will never get used to this, it's a do or don't not try I feel...

We tried yet again to go at this and im still seeing the same results, she says she wants this and thats why im overwhelmed because i made a decision to leave this relationship this weekend and they both begged me not to leave, i think its more she doesnt want me to leave because hell leave...

Thank you, as of right now they are trying to make me reconsider my decision, and talk it out I just see the same pattern and I honestly just see her holding on to this relationship because she doesn't want to lose him. When is enough when she says again she isn't comfortable with me and him...

Thank you so much, i am truly grateful for all your kind words, i am very fragile right now for it was today that i made the decision, but maybe i will finally breath easy knowing i wont have to be the stepping stool to anyone any longer.i will visit most definitely you all have been nothing but...

i have just found out that a few days ago my girlfriend told my boyfriend that she didnt want him having relations alone with me, yet she does in fact have relations with him alone, she doesnt with me because i know shes not comfortable, she doesnt ever want to have relations with us both...

Thank you so much everyone, its been great the past few days. No fighting alot of communication, and alot of intimacy. I am well beyond pleased at how this is unraveling. I know this could go sour at any moment but I dont want to ruin this positivity in my life. The bills are managing properly...

Yes I will come to a point in telling her as well as seeing if the cut off line is also a must. So far no arguing more acceptance from her part and also more love from her part I woke up this morning to her sweet embrace, it was an amazing feeling to know that now both my partners are syncing...

Thank you for your well wishes as well as your realistic insight to the matter. I do hope this is now a new elaf we have turned and that everything will be okay. Im very much in to astrology and Im constantly connecting her emotions with her zodiac sign and how we can all connect in an...

Yea things are clearing up and looking brighter she's opening up and not being so jealous and I guess just embracing it can also just be temporary this embracing but she does not know about the time limit since I have been pushed closer to that decision lately but she knows I'm not going to...

so far on the same boat, she keeps feeling left out of little things that i for one have been left out on before and do not see the big issue. its times like yesterday when she walked out the house because we didnt wait to do something with her that make me feel like shes just seeking more...

yes he is, he sees both views but also sees that she has taken it a tad too far and that i need to maybe just relax and take it one day at a time

Yes, that is great news to hear gives me hope in that maybe it is just a rough time and that it will all work out for the best. our boyfriend does alot of pulling too, he tries his hardest but feels like its still two seperate relationships, he sympathizes with me in the fact that she needs to...

Thank you Yes! thank you I have spoken to them about my decision to part if this last longer than intended, I gave my our boyfriend till our one year anniversary in the summer, if things arent improving by then I will leave and never look back, I also need to think about myself and what...

Agreed i strongly agree with you i prefer actions because they are the constant that speak more than words do. She has done this multiple times and ive just seen it getting worse. its becoming more angrier on her behalf and i explained to her in order to be here you have to let go of the...

Idk Its just so confusing, because we sat all last night to talk about it, and she was esxpressing herselfand she expects more atttention than we can give and that in results take away from the attention i deserve as well. :( Last night i went into the conversation with the intentions of going...