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Oh, and here's another lovely conversation we had by phone. W's guy is a chiropractor, and she's been after me to let him adjust our girls. Now, on a professional level, I'm not opposed to this. I know he's competent, and it may do them some good, although I'm also not totally sold on the...

I hope she does, too. The dating is certainly making me feel much better, though, and certainly is boosting my morale. Last night's date was so refreshing and fun. We sat and talked about my unique lifestyle, and she said she had been researching it, and even talked about a recent "Rikki Lake"...

The session was OK. I think hearing me tell the counselor a couple of times I was ready to end the experiment because of the trouble it is costing us really shocked W. She ended up promising to make more of an effort to start meeting my needs. She still tends to go on and on about how I claim...

During the counseling session tonight I'm think I'm going to bring up the idea of ending the polyamory vigorously and see how W and the counselor react. She's no closer to giving me what I want, and is getting angrier and more controlling by the minute. Last night I had to endure a lengthy rant...

So sorry you're in this predicament. I do hope you can get ahold of your violent outbursts. They're counterproductive, and make it almost impossible to have any kind of civilized discussion. So you want monogamy, and he wants polyamory. I'm guessing he already has someone in mind, based on...

Thanks for your words, naturalblue. I feel this week, I am very close to that breaking point. Last night, when she was practically threatening to ditch our date night to be with her guy, I was running various break-up scenarios through my head, planning to make the break. But she relented and...

Well, I got up the courage, finally. I texted her and told her I'd love to get together sometime and do something fun. She texted back that maybe we could work that out.

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Not such a good date night. W went on and on about how she doesn't like the schedule now, that's it's too rigid, too confining, she feels trapped. Feels she's not seeing him enough, blah, blah, blah. I tell her I designed the schedule pretty much exactly the way she wanted, and she's...

Date night tonight. I hope it does some good. In the past she's been on good behavior during date night. A good friend of ours (and occasional FWB) had a heart-to-heart with her last night. He feels she is out of control, and attempted to convince her to give polyamory a rest for two to three...

I guess the only difference between numbers 4 & 1 is that in the case of #4, there is the wildcard of not really knowing what her guy would do. He's still not fully divorced, and greatly worried about what might happen in his own case if details of this thing got out. His STBX is a bit...

After a long telephone discussion with W during lunch today, I'm seriously considering going ahead and putting a stop to all this. So now I have to decide whether to: 1) Tell her we're done with this polyamory experiment and let her make her decision. I'm pretty sure she'll decide to keep...

W originally asked me when I expected her home. Since I knew the conference ended at noon, and the drive is about 2.5 hours, I told her by three. That's when she brought up the fact that she wanted to have lunch with her guy. I should have said, "So I can expect you home around 4 or 4:30...

More pushing my boundaries. This weekend my wife and her guy went to a conference that he wanted to attend. It was to end Sunday at noon. I asked her to be home by 3:00pm. The location is about 2.5 hours from home, so she could spend some quality time with me and the girls the remainder of...

That was a shitty thing J did. I mean REALLY shitty. Shitty enough I think most people would have understood if you had ended the poly relationship right then. I'm so sorry he did that to you.

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The wife and I actually met up with our friends last night at a local bar. This girl I am hot for was there with them, and I actually spent some quality time sitting next to her and chatting. The couple she was with is a couple we've swung with before, and she has had at least one encounter...

So he wants a triad, while you and his wife really want a V relationship, where you and he are friends but not lovers. He is obviously pretty sexually attracted to you, but you not to him. This is indeed a delicate situation. Some serious introspection is going to have to happen for all you...

I'm so sorry your husband is behaving like this. He is totally caught up in the NRE, and his desire for teenagers is a bit disturbing. His demands are off-putting, for sure. My gut reaction would be to walk away and let him do his thing, and maybe he'll recover his from his NRE-induced fog and...

After re-reading your thread, it seems as if the hurt your husband caused is the bigger issue with your reluctance to be intimate than the NRE issue. That kind of broken trust hurt runs deep, and can take a long time to heal. Therapy helps. Are you and hubby pursuing MC? It can be an...