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    Asking for help when you're already drowning

    Well, that was a spectacular failure. They did a bit or reading about this, and decided that it's PERFECT. For them and their Unicorn. I got kicked to the curb and the three of them are forming a triad, with her moved in.
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    Asking for help when you're already drowning

    Just wanted to pop in and say thanks once again for the support and advice. We're still working out exactly where we're going and where everyone fits in there. But we've started TALKING about it. That's led to a couple of horrible, horrible days, as truths get dragged into the light, but it's...
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    Asking for help when you're already drowning

    I totally understand what RP's saying, that I should forget about the idea of sex with her at this stage. It really isn't even about sex, right now, except as it relates to my frustration and freak-out levels. (And GOD, does it ever!) It's about defining where I fit in their lives and where they...
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    Asking for help when you're already drowning

    Thanks, both of you! Just having someone that understands what I'm talking about here means more than I can say. At least I'm not internalizing everything now. I've been out with them a couple of times to swing clubs. Had a good time and I'd love to go back again, but not a must-have for me, at...
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    Asking for help when you're already drowning

    I know we're supposed to start out with an introduction and all that, but I've been struggling so hard and I just need to know what to do. I've read through a lot of the threads, and it seems like the majority of people here are couples who are open to a new person coming and going in their...
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