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:confused: OK, as the title suggests, I am having a bit of a Days of Our Lives moment. I have posted on this forum once before as I was new to polyamory and not sure how to handle my first r.ship being polyamorous. when I first met my now ex boyfriend he had a girlfriend, and told me he was...

Thank you all so much for your advice. It has been very helpful and very refreshing to get advice from open minded people who do not judge, and thats hard to find. I really do love him and he can't be replaced, so I think ill have to work on myself for a bit. :):)

I couldn't be monogamous in the sense that I want my freedom and I dont want to deprive the one I love from his freedom. I think monogamy is a social construct and unnatural. I also don't think that controlling somebody is a good idea nor is it healthy. I'm keen on the idea of open-monogamy...

I'm scared I'm going to have to leave him because I can't do it anymore. Which doesn't make sense and isn't fair on anyone. I could be wrong about everything and the fact that this is my first relationship and thus have never been monogamous with anyone means I have no point of reference to...

My friends had all never heard of polyamory and I dont blame them, neither had I. There is difficulty in trying to convey what it is as I'm sure you all know. No matter what I say about trust or honesty or free love, the second I tell them he has another gf they tell me I deserve better. So it...

Thanks for your advice AnnabelMore, it was really helpful :) I will be sure to check out the website. My boyfriend has encouraged me to talk to his other girlfriend more, and I agree that if we became closer it would be easier for both of us. I do hope it gets easier. I think that's my biggest...

Hi guys, I’m quite new to this and really, really confused about my feelings, so I was wondering if you could help. Any advice would be appreciated, but please be kind. I met this guy about 10 months ago and we connected instantly. It was as if we already knew each other; we’re both vegan, both...