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I keep giving you credit for things that originated from other people, don't I, nycindie? lol. Well, thank you for letting me know where "credit is due" and I will do a search on postings by that person as well. Several emails later, I'm cautiously hopeful to the point of assinging nicknames...

I agree with Annabel that it's pretty crappy, but it's pretty much how things go for me as well. Plans with me have always come a distant second, and will always take a distant second too. I've come to accept that, even though it pisses me off sometimes, and I just don't hold my calendar open...

To throw my readers a slightly less depressing entry.... I'm now engaged in email exchange/mild flirtation with one half of a couple in my area. I'm leery of dating a couple, but given the fact that I am not looking for any more partnerships, but more so for lover-friends (trademark nycindie...

And it is another day of chanting "I am my own primary, I am my own primary, I am my own primary" to try and stave off the feelings of worthlessness and sadness that again, Marty has a conflict for our "scheduled" time. And that the "conflict" is "wanting a quiet night after helping his mother...

I'm glad my blog could help, pocket. :)

Saw Marty last Sunday for the first time in far too long, thanks to the insanity of summer and such. It was a decent afternoon/evening. I took my son over to play with his son. We were able to chat and game a bit around that, but a lot of the focus was on watching the kiddos. After Kitty got...

I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary. I am my own primary.

From my very limited experiences... I met Marty's wife the very first time he and I saw each other in person. And he met my husband at the same gathering. It was important to me, as a poly-newbie, to make sure via direct contact that his wife was okay with us dating, and to give Marty the...

As a mom, who is dating a dad (as well as being married to one), I sympathize with you a lot on this, Annabel. I hope you can figure out how you'd like to proceed.

The date went okay. :) There was no kiss stealing - I'm not generally that bold on a first date (maybe I should be? heh). To me the first date with someone off the internet is generally to make sure they are who they have said they are, and I am confident in that. We got coffee and chatted...

I have a date tonight! TONIGHT! Impulsive Green Mom today, LOL. This is someone I messaged in my monthly "attempt to meet people on OKC".... we hit it off so well that I asked her out. Yes, we just started emailing today. Yes, that is fast. But I'd much rather have a coffee tonight and...

Questioning why I feel that way, that's a very good idea. Off the topic of my head... - I already know I've feeling very insecure and clingy right now, in wake of having learned of my husband's indiscretions. - - However, it's not anyone's job other than mine to validate me. I'm going to...

I am going to be blogging a lot more in upcoming months I think - both here and in my personal, private blog - because I have a lot of things I want to work on within myself. My ongoing to-do list: -be less co-dependent on those I am in romantic/sexual relationships with -be less dependent on...

Thanks, Annabel. :) My date night ended up getting cancelled, again, due to bf being sick. So instead I spent several hours reading a book and taking some much needed chill time, since the kids were nice enough to go to bed on time with no fighting for a change. I'm doing some work on a...

I haven't read any of the responses to this thread yet - I wanted to give my answers before seeing what others said. 1. Do those "pangs" ever go away completely? - they haven't for me yet, but I'm only six months in, and hubby has not had a "relationship" during the time - just flirtations...

Thanks for the support, folks. earthlovemother, welcome to the forums. :) Regarding letting kids know, honestly, I think that will vary depending on family dynamics. My kids are only 2 & 4, and Marty's child is 4, so we don't really get questions. But also, there is nothing I would do or...

I finally got a chance to read your fanfic and let me say -- very well done! I'm sorry to read about the recent frustration, but your latest post was yay. Sounds like things are moving along slowly but surely. :)

The last week has been really difficult. I am struggling and not really sure what else to do about it other than what I've put in motion. Derrick and I were able to have a long talk on Weds. It went really well and I felt it was the first step towards healing the broken trust. We even had sex...

I ended up cancelling my date with Marty, so that Derrick and I could talk. I think we are on the right track, it is just going to take a long time for the trust to be rebuilt. But at least we are communicating about it and trying to move forward. We set another talking date for Friday...

Thanks for your support, SNeacail.