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Thanks all! Thanks for the support, I'm going to be okay. I'm channeling Gandolf, telling my demons, "You shall not pass!" How geeky was that? Life is good and my wife is the best. I'll be okay.

My wife and I have been reading a book called "Radical Acceptance, Living your life with the heart of a Buddha" There is some very good matreial in there about self-worth that might help your situation. I would reccomend it.

Hi all, My wife and I are new to the whole poly scene and it is very helpful to be on this forum and read all of the advice from the members of this board. Here is my situation, my wife is going out of town to visit her boyfriend, they are planning to spend four days together. I have given...

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My affirmation: J is my wife, and partner. She is my wife by choice, both hers and mine. We are both autonomous individuals and while she has a great deal of influence over me, she does not own me, nor do I own her; again we are together by choice. I cannot and will not force her to be anything...

I'm very sorry for the hurt you're feeling, I wish you the best of luck in re-establishing trust in your relationship. Baby steps is the way to go, be honest and truthful with yourself and your husband, and understand it will take time. Best wishes, Skater21

Hi Hi SexyPixie, I just wanted to say that you are not alone. I think that we have some things in common. Mostly, that I too am not sure if polyamory is right for me. My wife has recently become involved with a polyamorous man and, at times, I feel like my only choice is to go along with it. I...

Sounds like things are going well for you. That is awesome, best of luck to the three of you.

From Utah Hi all, I am from Utah and new to the forum. I am married to a wonderful woman who has recently fallen in love with a polyamorous man. I was married before and my first wife and I were swingers. In fact my first wife left me for someone we met while swinging. Obviously my past...