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Me: Straight single female considering a poly relationship. Him: straight. Her: bi-sexual. Us = Human beings.

Oooooooo.....let's hear it for cute guys on motorcycles! :D Thanks for your encouragement and support StitchwitchD.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for your encouragement, GS. I tend to think my couple should take the lead in how to "do" this "poly stuff", since they're the ones who introduced me to it and both of them were wanting a poly relationship. They've been together for about 2 years, with...

Welcome and "Bravo" for your willingness to try and stay honest with yourself! Me, too. I'd never heard of polyamory until meeting the male person in my couple online. (Him, heterosexual, His first partner, female/bi, and me, female/hetero)When he initially told me about it I was certain it...

Is your wife bisexual, such that she might be interested in adding a female love/lover to her life? If not, what you're wanting is called "polygyny," not to be confused with polyamory. And personally, as a 55-year old female who's observed and been part of the struggles for women's rights...

You're most welcome! So glad they've been helpful.

Just venting here..... I forgot how much I HATE the process of moving!!!:mad: The internet searches trying to decide which method to use....all of which seem too expensive. (And of course I'd love to be able to afford full service with someone packing it up, moving it and unloading...

Just my $.02 worth.....When I see someone with the status of "separated" I don't necessarily think about them as being legally "separated". I typically think they mean they're still married but not living with their spouse.

You/your husband might want to try "cleansing" his aura after his visits. Auras are basically energy fields. When you get right down to it, everything is made up of energy. There's nothing necessarily magic or spooky about it. Oriental medicine has worked with meridians, e.g., patterns/grids...

Thanks FireChild! I sure hope so, too! :D

Thanks for the feedback SC. We weren't staying in the same room. They were in one tent and I was in another. Since it was a more "public" gathering we didn't want to push or "flaunt" the issue of our developing poly relationship. Some of their SCA group members are quite conservative...

I"m really pleased with how things are moving along in our relationship right now. Ever since I made the decision to take a new job closer to my couple, our guy has been more attentive. He is now calling me on a more spontaneous ("was just thinking about you so decided to call") and frequent...

Are you too selfish wanting to love them both? Does your love for the second woman diminish the love you have for your fiancee? I would suggest that the answer to both questions is, "No, not if you're polyamorous!" That's one of the basics of polyamory, after all. There may, indeed, be a "no...

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Thanks Unicorn. That's one thing I tried hard to keep in mind as I was considering making this job change and move. There are no guarantees in life and particularly not in relationships!

This is certainly true, but even when we went to an event in early June and were together for 5 days, they'd make a decision, e.g. who would sleep with whom when, and then tell me what it was and then ask if it was ok with me. In that situation I felt I could have/should have been part of the...

Thanks redpepper. I'll certainly be around to discuss how things are going. There's still a lot to learn and to work through. As much as "our" guy says he doesn't intend for me to be or feel like a "secondary" partner (which isn't acceptable or desireable to me), they haven't been treating me...

Thanks Mono! :D

I didn't listen to the clip since I have no speakers with my computer. (Yes I know, I live in the dark ages! LOL) But....for someone who lived with depression for a long time and tried therapy, alone, to get better, finding anti-depressant medication that helped was a "love-life" saver. I...

Well I did it! After living 6-7 hours away from my poly couple I made the decision to accept a job that's about an hour away from where they live. There were several factors that went into my decision to make a job change and move. Living closer to them was only one of those factors, although...