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    Casual Sex - Discussion

    A desire for sex is funny and pathetic? This seems a rather resentful and judgmental way to view the powerful, sacred Eros/libido energies that fuel and fire up a lot of human behavior. It reminds me of the goddess Artemis, in her fearful aspect of being cold, remote, passionless, abstracted and...
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    Diary of an Alcoholic, Non-Monogamous, Polyamorous Sex Addict

    I've been talking with several different women about polyamory and, without exception, none of them have any interest. These are not potential partners for me, just friends, exes, acquaintances, etc. My conversations with them have been like me coming out, and them expressing a combination of...
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    Hi there, I'm really excited about meeting everyone!

    Nice to meet you! How's it going? Immaterial
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    I can't believe this happened..

    It may also be important for you to hear that you don't need to talk yourself out of any of your reactions to the event. You don't need to get to work on changing how you feel. Men are always trying to change how they feel. I guess women are too, a lot of the time, but men who have experienced...
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    OKC in the house?

    Love your profile pic. Been feeling pretty much like that lately. You have an entertaining OKC profile as well. Immaterial
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    Hi!

    Hi and welcome. Fascinating tale! Look forward to hearing more. Immaterial
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    Is masturbation sex?

    mmmm. engorgement. haha. I think it's interesting how split the poll numbers are, both male and female. And 4 magical brownies is pretty darned delicious. Immaterial
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    Casual Sex - Discussion

    Casually burning them or formally burning them? Incantations included, or a sort of carefree and agnostic non-ceremonial burning? I think I have too much time on my hands. Immaterial
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    Book: Sex at Dawn

    Has Anyone Read "Sex at Dawn"? And if so, any opinions? I'm intrigued by the central thesis. From the promo materials for the book: "...Human beings evolved in egalitarian groups that shared food, child care, and, often, sexual partners. Weaving together convergent, frequently overlooked...
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    I can't believe this happened..

    For anyone who reads this, reverse the gender roles. A lightbulb is sure to go off. All of your feelings stem from having been *sexually assaulted*. Yes, men can be sexually assaulted too. Your experience is a case in point. If a female had written the original post, I'm quite sure the replies...
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    Is masturbation sex?

    This is a very interesting thread. I wish there were more responses. I really think it is a very odd topic. Where does sex begin? I've known folks who actually believe sucking cock is not sex. Anal penetration by a penis is not sex. Handjobs are not sex. Giving oneself a handjob is not sex. Etc...
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    Idealist Poly Blog

    haha, how wonderful, what a whirlwind. Blessings to you on all of these fantastic adventures. I don't know how you are keeping track of it all. It's like a hurricane of new experiences. Can't wait to hear more, Immaterial
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    Diary of an Alcoholic, Non-Monogamous, Polyamorous Sex Addict

    I appreciate all of the thoughts very, very much. I have never even entertained, even remotely, the possibility of ever being sexually involved with students or former students, beyond the level of fantasy. I do find it sexually arousing at times to be around what are essentially adult sexual...
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    OKC in the house?

    I'm on there. The local profiles seem fairly idiotic. But I have made one new friend, so that's cool. my name on there is tantraom. Immaterial
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    Diary of an Alcoholic, Non-Monogamous, Polyamorous Sex Addict

    Last night, I met up with a former student of mine and we talked for nearly two hours. She is 18, seems going on 30, and has had an interesting time of it. More on that later. Our deeper connection began when she started overtly trying to seduce me. She has an old man obsession (obviously!), as...
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    Cheating vs. Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Ha, well, when I was cheating, I met more women who were interested. Now that I am not cheating, I am completely alone. haha. Go figure. I did get a message from a certain miss lonelyhearts at OkCupid who was looking for "more than I am getting in my marriage." In my reply, I asked her if her...
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    Casual Sex - Discussion

    Oh, yeah, I was mostly referring back to Gabe's key/keyhole thing. I don't know what Superjast means by getting it or not getting it, and await further instruction. :-) Immaterial
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    Casual Sex - Discussion

    Gets laid? :) A woman once was riding hell out of me and coming repeatedly and suddenly stopped and said, "I feel so guilty, like I'm using you." It was a tender and funny moment. I was in one place (blisstacy) and she was somewhere else entirely (physically vital with pleasure, but with a...
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    Is masturbation sex?

    I answered magical brownies. The reason: I am waking up to a reality for myself where everything is sex. Everything. This is an insight that is deeply spiritual for me and may or may not last. It does not seem a particularly manageable way to live my life. haha. Immaterial
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    Diary of an Alcoholic, Non-Monogamous, Polyamorous Sex Addict

    That's why they call them...Lays. Immaterial
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