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Whew! I just finished reading your thread from beginning to end. It makes me happy to see that things CAN work and everybody can be happy in the situation. There seems to be a mix of negative and positive experiences here on the forum, and I'm aiming for a positive one... so far so good...

nycindie, Yes, my reference to attachment is the affection and caring, and allowing myself not to hold that back. I love how you changed the perspective of that. Your post actually brought tears to my eyes. Hubby and J are both military, so any of us can get orders at any point. I know...

The no intercourse is between me and J at all, whether hubby is present or not. Hubby said he's not sure if he will ever feel comfortable with it, we will see where it leads. I'm totally cool with that, if it's what hubby needs to be okay with all of this. I love the idea of being...

Continuing on from our introduction.... We had our first meeting last night with our friend. We'll call him J. I was a bit nervous, I didn't know how he was going to feel and I didn't want to scare him off. We all sat down, hubby on one side, J on the other. They held hands in my lap...

Thank you for the positive thoughts! They are much appreciated, and make us feel even more confident in the strength of our relationship. We did have our friend over again last night and all discussed. I'm going to start a log in Life Stories section :)

Well, we discussed things, and he did come here to read and will continue too. I suggested maybe he make a name and ask some questions if he felt. He's very receptive, and trying to be understanding. He wants me to be happy, but his mind is reeling from all of this information, and he feels...

Thank you all for your thoughts and advice! I am definitely going to read that book, I'm all about reading! I did actually have a conversation with our friend today, before I even brought more up to my husband I wanted to see where he stood. I didn't get too in detail, but I asked him what...

I jsut realized this probably ended up too long and in detail for introductions.. so Hi! and if you feel this needs to be moved go ahead.

Hello, my name is Jen and I've been reading a lot the past week on this forum and finally decided to register, introduce myself and see what advice I can get! I'm 30, been married almost 7 years to the love of my life. Before we got married I was a very sexual person. I had been involved in a...