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I think it helps you let go of those who really aren't into you, too.

It is interesting how some people are so comfortable talking with others about sex at any given part of the day and at any level, yet others completely cringe at the thought of being honestly human.

WOW! So my original thread got edited by someone not me. But it has also stirred some unintentional controversary with some. Sorry. I'd delete this threat but I don't have those types of powers here! Boo on Erin!!! :(

The ethics of on-duty cops Interesting you mentioned 'police.' Here's a very recent article pertaining to two on-duty Chicago cops having consentual sex with an intoxicated woman, but then it got out of hand at her apartment - which led to a sexual assault case. There's no denying they...

@NeonKaos: Many people on here struggle by questioning whether or not a person is really interested in them, so I thought I'd share the quiz. Sure, it was written for the traditional type of male/female relationship, but these questions can still be applied to anyone who simply wants to know if...

The process of dating and meeting new loves is fun and exciting but can tedious and time-consuming if it doesn't work in your favor. I read the whole thread - and it appears that you were really wrapped up in him, which made you feel a little insecure because he wasn't as communicative with you...

Cheating is like going to the bar... These are all fascinating views on cheating. I think people cheat because there is something significantly wrong in their lives at home, and they use sexual encounters with others (however long-lasting or bedroom-hot) as an escape to cope with what really...

You have not mentioned if J is faithful to you or has straying tendencies like you. How does he view relationships and sex? When do you think you'll talk to J about your wishes? Perhaps he already feels the same.

He wants me to be even-keeled all the time, just like him. I just want to shout, "Not gonna happen, baby! This is me - take it or leave it!" LOL But I can't do that because then it starts another fight. He pushes what he wants too much on me - but I'm sick of it - I need to be me - a happy...

You brought up a great point - women will be assulted or raped regardless of what they wear or do. Women don't walk around asking to get assulted or raped - it comes to them in the strangest of locations - and without warning. This may be hard to read, but I was molested twice as a child by...

I recently read this article online and thought it too good not to share in a new thread... I've modified it as He/She for everyone :) "He/She’s Just Not That Into You Quiz: 13 Questions to Ask Yourself" "Are you a man or woman who has obsessive thoughts about hotties who sweep into and out of...

@NYCIndie: The more I think of it (and by reading these posts), I think I'm completely normal, too. Its nice to have like-minded people around on this forum and not feel so hush-hush to talk about it (unlike my guy is and wants me to be). But in my real life, I've discovered that two of my...

I found this interesting because I do this, too, about way too many things in my life. Besides the sex thing, I replay previous conversations with people in my head and wonder if I'm a person who doesn't deserve her job. I try to be friendly, perky, and professionally proper as much as...

Updates, replies, etc... I'm sorry I've been away this week - work keeps me busy - @ Grounded Spirit You brought up a good point about how one person’s kink is another person’s vanilla. Based on our upbringings and sexual histories, my guy isn’t as openly expressive as I am – which has led...

Takes a brave man to set jealousy aside... kudos!

@ Minxxa: It's been interesting reading this thread... the military... your unintentional obsessions with his being satisfied by other women... your struggle to manage your time the best way you know how... your interest in psychology... and especially the conference on sex therapy. Can you...

Yes GS, a little education is always good. I want to know why I'm such a fiend and he isnt... and how to find balance so we can have a lasting relationship. I'd sure like an open marriage for both of us, though. Maybe it really is like they say... I'm in my dirty thirties! lol

Irony Funny how a little fear of losing someone can make them start paying attention and making an effort... let's just hope it lasts longer than a few weeks this time... :rolleyes:

I agree - a little advice never hurts! Looking forward to a healthy new start :p

Ha ha! Oh no, that's not why I made an appointment for the middle this month... She's certified in sex therapy, so I'm going to give it a whirl because I really need a professional's opinion on a bunch of other stuff, too. I think it's almost required at this point if I'm going to move forward...